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How do i get this girl to like me..(i realy like her)

i dont have much experience with the women....i guess i dont really know how to get 1 or what to say at times...im not sure...im not born with that ...so i need your advice..she just laughs at me if i tell her how i feel:(

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Try to be a little more strong willed with her ! Be firm , yet gentle and tell her how you feel ! Keep working on it and have faith and courage and go get her ! Watch her and see what she likes and you will have something to talk about with her . Right now , you're shy and don't want to get hurt . Be more assertive around her . Don't give her a chance to laugh ! Keep talking on so she knows you're strong ! You can do it ! Good Luck !

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ok Sir thank you i will do that and hope she will notice me more and stuff
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You're so right. We women love our man to be assertive.... Not a bully.....but assertive and self confident. You should give advice to one of those love advice columns. If nothing else, it would keep you out of "trouble." Chuckle :)
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You can do it , Haris ! Old American saying : If you don't succeed at first , try , try , again ! You have the self confidence , now you need to let her know it ! She will notice you more and talk with you more ! Best of luck , young man !
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Just be a friend to her and when she talks to you be a good listener and treat her like a special person

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thx ima try
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This sort of question comes up frequently. So I'll take a shot at an answer. Not because I'm some hot shot lady killer. I'm older and have learned a few things.

Be well put together. Clean, groomed and wear decent clothes. Be nice, but not so much so that you come off desperate. It looks weak and women are repulsed by that. Pay attention to her enough that she knows you've noticed her. Have some goals. This is appealing to women if you're in high school or if you're fifty. Be passionate about something. Most of all, be yourself. "Getting" a girl is not like rebuilding an engine, or catching a fish. At the end of the day, no matter what you do, she has to be in to you. Don't stress out over it. You sound young. There will be many girls/women in your life. Good luck. You'll learn. And you will be fine.

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