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To wait or not to wait

So theres this girl i like well it didn't really start off that way. It was sort of a challenge basically like a bet i made with my friends. And i was like alright challenge accepted anyways after talking to her for about a month or two i started actually liking and caring about her and i even told her too. I didn't bs or beat around the bush. And she said she liked me too. Awesome right? Then one day she saids my ex wants to get back together with her (yea cool story @#$% me) I gave her an ultimatum and she got back together and said we can try in the future. So i tried to ignore her and everything even hit on girls but she's stuck in my head and i still talk to her and kinda hope that maybe i should wait....im a @#$%en idiot i don't know what to do anymore and your advices will be greatly appreciated

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If I read it right she went back to her ex but told you that you two could try in the future? WTF? She is going back to a relationship she apparently is expecting to fail. Not only should you forget her, but you should RUN! That is someone who likes to play games. No one wants to be the one being played and right now that is you.

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Your right but What if i said i know all this and im kinda hoping it'll work out with me? Im an idiot
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I can tell you from experience, it won't work out and you will only end up more hurt. Been there done, got the scar on my heart.
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True you are very wise btw how old are you im asking because theres another part to this story and i need an insight on it
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sigh...50.
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Nothing wrong with that i'll greatly respect your answer more now
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I don't like putting my age out there too much because a lot of the younger people think older people don't know what it is like to be young. Then truth is not only do we remember, but we have raised another generation thru it.
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i get you im only 22 but ppl my age are pretty ignorant
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Just talk to her about your feelings, if she doesn't care though she isn't the right one for you

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To read the painfully long description or not to read it... That is the question...

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Lol that was pretty funny
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Good... When I saw that you commented I was afraid you'd be raging at me :)...
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Haha no worries
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Dammit.... I was thinking up so many come backs >8(...
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Like what?
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Don't wait for a girl that put you second life is to short to wait on something that could never come. Simply say "fuck it" and go on to bigger and better things. A lot more fish in the sea so why wait on a bitter sea cow whose to hung up on her past sea cucumber?

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i believe the quote is : to be or not to be

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Are you flirting with gals in front of her.

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No she told me to date other ppl and i tried. My friends sister brought 8 of her friends and i didn't talk or look at any of them and im not even shy im pretty outgoing but i couldn't get her out of my head i was even pretty drunk and still couldn't
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Awe.
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Maintain your dignity.
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I wish I knew what to say to make things better for you. It is nice that you can express yourself so well. You are ahead of the game. It is hard to know if this chick is worthy of your affections. Putting you on hold until maybe in the future is kind of rude or presumptuous of her. Maybe she will be back and then at that time you can determine if she is someone you have time and inclination to have a relation with. You may wish to rejoin but just remember this time and how she treated you this time in possibilities in the future.
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You can't help who you care about. My advice: Lifes to short. Move on. In the end waiting will hurt you more. If she wanted you she would have picked you. Don't wait on the side line. Go have fun just never forget and take it as a lesson in life.

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