Hey, Cowan. Unfortunately, you don't have to be the least bit immature to be attracted to a bad man. In fact, just the opposite - you could have had to grow up too fast. You may have had a dad that was, say, an alcoholic and he beat you, and you spent your young little life pleading and begging him to stop drinking and he always promised he would. But he didn't. Then one day, he went out in a field and shot himself...dead. Sometimes then a woman grows up wanting to fix every man she comes in contact with to (subconsciously) make up for not being about to "fix" her dad or maybe someone else in the family. There are a lot of complicated reasons a woman can be attracted to bad men. A lot of times, they want to see if they can "fix" them.