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Is it too early to be saying this?

me and my bf been going out 2 years and he is telling me that he is going to marry me this year. i mean i want to but arent we too young too be saying this i love himm soo much.

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Your profile says you are 14, is that correct? Far too young. Wait until you are old enough to take care of yourself, finish school and get finances straight. Don't be in such a hurry to take on adult problems, there will be plenty of time for that.

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how old are yall

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14 and 15
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oh thts way to early lol
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Oh yes definitely young!! Don't have any idea what marriage is yet!!
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In all states at that age you are forbidden from marrying. And even if both of you want to, your parents should forbid it also. You're way to young, wait till you're twenty, and see if he'll still be around.
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TOO YOUNG! PLAIN AND SIMPLE! You're just kids!!!!
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You're 14.. Way too young.

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If your young wait a few years.

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I don't think is too early but you're probably still young and don't feel ready for commitment

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At 14 year old i thought i could fly if i jump off the roof!

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Well, that should be a mutual decision. A man doesn't tell someone he is going to marry them. He proposes.

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Hummmm im really hoping ur a girl

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Well you are too young to know about life. U should wait longer. And i dont think you can get married at that age even if you wanted to
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My wife and I are high school sweethearts . we waited 6 yrs to get married. i gave her a promise ring at 16.
we just celebrated our 23 anniversary 29 yrs total.

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Aww that's cute :)
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You're only 14... WAY too young...

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Way too young,but nice to think about. ; ) Stay together if you can, get your priorities straight, things will fall into place. Enjoy being young.

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Merry Christmas Bubbs!!
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Hey C!! Thank you so much!! Same to you! : )
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My friend was about to get maried she's 14. But being a long distance relationship he was cheating. I don't know if you love each other

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Way to young to get married. Gosh! I'm not allowed to date until i'm 17.

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Wait till 18

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wait till at least 20 or so

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i can understand why he's getting impatient but you gotta wait until about 18 or 21

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How old are you? This is a big and life changing decision. Finish school accomplish a few things, and then see.

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how old are you? if your passed 18 then i think its ok. but if you think its too early tell them you think its too soon, im 15 and i say im gonna marry my bf, im not gonna do it til im older though.

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dude. I saw on your profile you are 14. I'm 15 and nobody has asked me out and I have not asked anyone out yet and you are thinking of getting married??? way too young. sorry. but personally, I think a kid is still a kid untill the day they move from home

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dont marry young people change some

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Just wait a little while. There really is nothing wrong with being in love, and there is a possibility that you guys will still be together. But if you guys were meant to be husband and wife, then you will last forever. Theres no reason to rush it.

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You may think you love him, but at fourteen, I loved my teddy bear. Younger people tend to get emotionally attached easily, so I'd wait. Plus, you don't want to miss out on experiences you can't get while you are married!

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That's way to early, I'm 14 to and that would just be crazy, i mean I love my boyfriend a lot but come on my mom had taught me well not to fall for teen love it won't always last and it won't be the end, it's just to early

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all i can say is.....good luck

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14 way to young i had a friend who got married at 14 and it went downhill from there wait til 18 or 21

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is he joking? or is he serious? i'm not sure but i don't know how old you are but if you are 14 like everybody else is saying then you shouldn't

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Yeah, I agree with musicismylife11...he might just be saying that. But, if your boyfriend legitly asks you to marry him, I wouldn't...to young. However, it is not to young to love each other. If this is the right guy, he'll wait until you are ready to get married.
Like others have said, wait for marriage until you are able to take care and provide for yourself..

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You guys are 14! Too young to get married. But he could give you a promise ring so that when you guys are older you two could get married. And sometimes though teen relationships don't last, you may actually breaking up and finding some one new, again not saying always but it is a possibility. If he truly loves you and is the one he will wait until you are ready and when you two are older. You need to wait and be sure you are able to provide for yourself and care for yourself without others help. Just wait a bit and see where life takes you

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well first of all his just playing around with you and second i wouldnt believe him. that happend to me b4 sooo just go with it and see what happends later;)

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Wait, it's the best decision you'll EVER make. :)

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if you have been together for two years and you really love each other then i dont think so... my boyfriend tells me he wants to marry me but we have been together for a long time and we actually mean it..

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14 way to early get promise rings at the most at 14

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ooh~ We're both 14!... but seriously.. Waay too early.. It's just the beginning our teenage life~ So Let's just enjoy it because it's the best part of our lives.. right? Think about marriage when you're adults.. At least there's something you both can be proud of.. Being together for a very very long time is an accomplishment~ :))

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HELL NO until you r 21 to get marry

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Fourteen is WAY too young, even if you guys ARE in love

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for your age, yes!

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Well ur way! To young to be in love but not way! To young to date

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Give it a little bit of time. He could be the one, but he also could not be the one. I know my husband and I met/started dating really young and it's the best thing that's ever happened to me. I also know that this isn't always that common of a thing. Take your time :)

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