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Ok say you've been in a relationship for 26 year's 5 kids then he decides to mess around what do you do?

alway's believed we grow old together my children are all grown one left he's 14.

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Go to a marriage counselor and try to save the marriage for the children

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slap that foo!

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Foo? Lol
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Hahaha yehhhyehhhh
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whats he doing? tell him to smarten up or talk to him and try to fix your issues. pray about it and ask god for help. it might take patience but he'll help you

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Show him to the door is the best solution

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Think about the children
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forgive and forget.

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Doesn't really solve the problem
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Then he will do it again
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I have really tried just hurt's I take care of him he does'nt even work.
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some guys are lucky
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maybe he's spoiled ,only you know how much you give him ,stop giving so much ,make him earn something .
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Ask the hard question... Why did he mess around in the first place? Is this the first time? Or the first time that you know of? What's broken and can it be mended in you relationship? Seek counseling together for the sake of the kids.

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My children our all but one are grown he's 14 not much to think about just really sad.
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It would hurt him to put your kids against him

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More like he used my two middle children to hide it from me they said they just couldn't hurt me, that is why they kept his secrect.
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That is a hard question. I guess I would try counseling which I never recommend , because I don't think it works. You have got so much time invested, it's worth a try. If you love him try to forgive. I think it will take a long time to regain trust .

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It's not about the kids , it's about you. If the marriage is not working it will be more damaging than a divorce .
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I don't know if I would throw all that away just because he cheated. That's what men do.

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Talk to him and figure things out. If he agrees, go to counseling. Don't give it up right away because of the kids

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Cut his weeweee offf

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I say have a talk with your husband, anyone makes mistakes ; the choice is yours ; but you must confront him, find out the factsm ; and go from their,you just don't throw away 26 years.good luck.

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That a lot of year and a lot of kids men sometimes feel trap but don't make it easy for him otherwise he will think he be able to did it again 5 kids that means he real enjoys your alone time which kids can take away from that weigh everything is he a good father was it a 1 time thing or an affair is it over is it someone you know have there been other do you need to get tested for std is that person married and if they are does her husband know is he a good provider you maybe suffer from empty nest pains do you want him back did he ever think that you get bored too just sleeping with him for 26 yrs

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