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why do i feel like a girl but am a guy

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it speaks for itself ,you're probably very feminine ,it's the truth coming out ; don't be ashamed these days it's alright it's 2012 .good luck with your feminine side .

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but how i do this
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just be yourself
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i dont know how
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That1BadNovelist

Do you want to be a girl?

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i think
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Oh hmm. Have you tried? I don't think that there is anything wrong with that. But you could feel that because of some events in your life. Has anything traumatic happened? Or have you always felt this way?
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I've felt like this for 3 years
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That1BadNovelist
Do you have a strong motherly figure?
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Sorry I am asking a lot of q' but it will help me understand more.
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whats a motherly figure?
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Some more info would be useful. :)

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like what?
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Well, just describing how situations are for you, your feelings, etc. We have nothing to go on. A quick summary of your present life, etc.
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im a guy and alot of times i feel like im more of a girl then a guy and i want to know if somethings wrong with me is this just a phase or what
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Okay, I guess you don't want to share, and that's understandable. It just may helped us understand, better. Something wrong with you? As someone else said, you may simply have some feminine traits, more so than the average male. Or......you may be gay? However, from looking at your profile, I see you ask about a girlfriend, so I am going to assume that you are not gay.
I would not say there's anything WRONG with you. It COULD be a phase, though I suspect it runs deeper than that. Perhaps you are a very sensitive, emotional person, and to you, that says feminine, though it isn't true. Perhaps you are surrounded by sisters, a lot of female friends, etc., and that makes you feel more feminine. I think you shouldn't be overly concerned right now; I do not know how old you are, but, wait until you mature more, just to see if things change for the better for you. Know that there is nothing WRONG with you, okay? = )
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im 14 and this has been going on for about 3 years now
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More than ever, don't worry about it now. Let yourself mature a couple more years. You can change a lot, during your adolescence. :) Good luck.
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what does that mean
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Just that it could be a phase, basically. Let a couple years go by to see how you feel, then.
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but i want to know whats happening its been happening for a long time now
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any what i can do to help this
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Faygo, there seemingly is nothing you can do. Please, just take my advice. I know it bothers you, but maybe, just maybe, it won't last.
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It will I know it
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i have the same feeling i just dont know y im so femine when it comes to some stuff but other than that im a guy

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how long have u felt like this
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like forever i always say awwww look at the cute little rabbit it so fluffy and soft
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people always say arer you a girl but i dont care
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Maybe you have a femine side O.o

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dosnt every guy have one
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Hummmmmm!!!!......no.....
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maybe your listening to your SWIG side

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whats that?
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Secrectly
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Gay........
maybe your gay
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you might be homosexual
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or very feminine
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im not gay i love girls
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but im not gay i love girls
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well then take some testosterone i guess
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What's that
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nevermind
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what is it
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it's a natural chemical that makes you stronger,facial hair grow faster,and more aggressive
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BoxingTally

One's gender is not just their body but their mind. Sometimes the mind and body can be switched.

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sorry but that sounds like bs
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26Simmons26

Ok.......I wish I wouldn't have saw this.

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why
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No offense. If that is what makes you happy go for it. But to me it seems a little creepy.
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PoisonIvyLeo

Some guys are more feminine then others. Nothing wrong with it. Just be who you are.

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but how do i deal with what people do/react
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Forget what others think. You need More confidence in yourself. If you act like you don't care others won't either. It's easily noticed if you act like you think it bothers others. We all a weird in our own ways. It's just that we don't all make it obvious. No one person is normal or better then another.
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May be hormone problems.

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kazarina

Do your parents know you have this inner turmoil. Talking it all out may help you put your true feelings into perspective. Hormones are a funny thing. It may be you don't have enough male hormones at present in your body. Puberty has alot to answer to as its a difficult confusing time for teenage boys & girls alike. Has your voice broken yet.

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My voice has and no my parents don't know
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kazarina
Are you able to talk to either one. Probably your mum. Mums are usually more nurturing. Your dad might not understand very well being a man.
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Also maybe make hormone injections may help. But then again you may not wish for more male hormones. I dont know how easy it would be either. A councilor could help you sort out all the feelings you are going through & then maybe help you talk with your parents.
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your hormones are out of balance. maybe your lacking testosterone. I understand how you feel, I've never been very feminine & am a little boyish. but deep within my spirit I feel neither male nor female, its only my outer shell that makes me so.

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