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So I proposed to my girl now I don't want to get married what should I do ?

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Tell her before you guys spend a lot of money on wedding plans, deposits for rentals, the dress, and other things. It is way better to be honest (and cheaper) compared to getting a divorce later on because you are not happy.

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Tell her the truth or go through with it

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Just tell her, you have not gotten married yet

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Tell her you have a bad case of cold feet and run.

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Be honest and tell her as soon as possible. The sooner the better.

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You screwed up badly......

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Ara has the answer. Tell her before you start spending a lot of money.

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Thats messed up but just tell her

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tell her and quickly

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Be honest. But be ready for a stormy reaction. Unless she has the same feelings you do, you WILL break her heart to some extent. Make very sure of your decision before bringing it up.

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run

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Whose the other girl

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Wait are you being completely honest????? Oh my god thats messed up!!
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call it off. it is unfair to her if you don't. plus you do not want all the tears and pain that the divorce will cause

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tell her? the best out of these so far is? dude you messed up. LOL. look are you scared? Why the sudden change of heart? I think you think your going to lose on things you may want to do? that scares your thoughts of why now you don't want to get married. better think this over. then make your choice. be honest with her as well as yourself

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Wow. Screwed up.
Next time think things through before you throw yourself at a girl.

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I say you call it off asap. Is there actually another person?????

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Just have a long engagement you might change your mind and regrets it and if you don't change your mind she might not want to marry you since you don't seem to know what you want say yes to engagement does not mean your married yet but be honest about the long engagement

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Ask if you guys can not get married for a while and just be engaged knowing that you have each other already when your ready

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What made you change your mind....?

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Brilliant, I hope the new GF dumps you soon after you break the heart of your girl friend
Sometimes the grass looks greener in the other pasture but ends up being artificial turf!

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Hey this should be a lesson to you .... don't do this dumb crap you seem a little childish over all what you think you found someone better? Poor girl thinks she has her prince charming turns out to be just another d-bag... So you can go ahead and get rid of what you already have or just realize your nervous about promising a lifetime to a probably wonderful girl

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Did something happen for you to not want to get married, or you just felt pushed into it? you just need to tell her, You made a mistake by doing it, your gut instinct tells you otherwise.

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be honest with her honesty is the best thing and there is no need to drag it out tell her that your sorry but you thought about it and you dont want to get married

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