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Will you talk to a guy if you meet him at a coffee shop or somewhere else?

will you talk to a guy when you alone at a coffee shop if you liked him myabe?

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Well I'm a dude... So if he's hitting on me, I'm probably in the wrong coffee shop...

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he?
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u close you eyes count to 3 then spill coffe on him then he is forced to talk to you and LOOK HIM IN THE EYE AT ALL TIMES

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...I think you forgot to add: AND NEVER USE A HOT COFFEE!!
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wel... semi-hot (thats what happend to me)
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Sure why not?

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I hear the scones here are great. *takes a sip of mochacinno and smiles* LMAO J/K
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Lol. Honestly I wouldn't even be in a coffee shop. I can't stand the taste or smell fo it! Yuk.
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Obviously I didn't mean fo. I meant of.
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Agreed! Cappuccino is bearable if it's made well, but otherwise no.
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i just noticed that wuz WAAAY off topic lol :)
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Usually, unless he gives off that psycho murderer feeling...

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There is not a ban against talking to people so yes, whether you like him or not, but take precautions against those people because your security might be compromised by being alone.

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Maybe but honestly unless he was attractive in some way (looks or just confidence) I'd probably get really annoyed and want him to leave me alone. I'd probably get annoyed either way, actually. I get annoyed easily if someone seems needy to me. I'm also not the type who likes to make conversation with strangers at grocery stores or places like that.

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The real question is: Why wouldn't I?

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Absolutely! But if you want to do it, Just know it doesn't work for creating relationships stronger than an acquaintance. Usually, dudes, often being more logical in nature than girls, are busy! Even if they don't look busy. And interrupting them when they are busy almost never leaves a good first impression.

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oh please no one is doing anything logical these days ( i no what that means i watch star-trek)
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Then you'll have to fill me in Cause I don't watch Star-Trek.
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logical means smart and stratigec (srry i cant spell) and have u looked out the window latley ewwwwww...
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Logic is the science that investigates the principles governing correct or reliable inference to be precise. It's lack of Wisdom that makes you say "Ewwwwww!"
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no actually its your lack of understanding which makes you say that about wisdom (no offence)
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And might I point out that, according to your handle, you are a man so why are you fighting this if you fell I'm saying men are smart?
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if i say that men are smart in my mind that is sexist but i would not disagree if you said manKIND was smart (we r weak but smart)
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well im a boy legaly but technicly im a man yes (only mature person in the world :P)
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*feel I'm saying...not fell.
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...you got way lost Bro! Hahaha!! k about the wisdom thing: I was not insulting YOUR wisdom, I was stating that mankind in general lack in wisdom. What does it matter what is sexiest? Lastly, yes as a species we have great intellect but that want what I was referring to in my original answer at all. Biologically speaking, women make decisions based in emotions more often than logic, and men make decisions based in logic more than emotion. That's why the stereotypes about men and women are the way they are. Men will pick a kitchen bowl based on function. Women will pick one based on fashion. Savvy?
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* but that wasn't...
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I need to fix my auto correct
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yes true thx for cleaning that mess lola :)
LLAP
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i no i HATE auto correct
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Ha! K! totally off subject but I just thought of it and I have to ask! Please tell me you play rock, paper, scissors, lizard, Spock!
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im thhe only 1 eho doesnt choose spock
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yeah,

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NO COMMENT!!! i am a DUDE

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so am i SEXIST!!!!!!!!!!!!
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hahai know that ;)
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sure..if.....but i'd keep a safe distance....and stay off his lap..

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Sure would. One time I was visiting London, stopped in one of the bars in Herrods for a cuppa. The man at the table next to mine got to talking with me. We talked for a couple of hours and then he left, after paying for my food. We never exchanged names, but we were both delighted to have found someone fun to talk to. I wouldn't ever leave the public area where there were other people, but I might go for a walk with him if I could stay in a heavily crowded public place. I'd exchange email addresses with him and maybe communicate with him...see where it went.

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Absolutely

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