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girlfriend leaves me with her children, goes on crack binges.I wait until she comn back, I lie for her, ect. I'm reading codependent no more

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They will never forget seeing their mother in this state. Also, the longer they are around it, the more likely they will become addicts also later on. Since you're not married to her, you do not have the authority to take them to a safe place with you UNLESS she signs a letter you have written saying you may do so. ( dont count that as completely accurate advice. I could be wrong on that) Are there relatives that are in any better shape than she is that could take them? They will probably just give the children back to her. How about the children's biological father? Does he know? You must call police and have them taken to social service after Christmas. Then she will be arraigned. She will have to comply with the judges orders to get her children back which will be a few years. You have been left holding these children's lives in your hands. You must save their lives and force her to get help. No matter what you try now, this will still be the end result, so you might as well do it now. This is sad and I'm sorry for you and children.

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Hi Sincerity....what an excellent answer. It's hard to type these kinds of answers isn't it? It's so very sad for the children. But I believe you are 100% correct in what you say.
May I wish you a very Merry Christmas and hopefully a healthier 2013 for you as well. Happy Holidays and God Bless. :)
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Merry Christmas too FB and a wonderful New Year also !!! Thank you so much!
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Angry, upset, and confused. *___*

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John are they all her kids and are you guys married

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yes they are all her children and no we are not marry
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Run buddy run been there done that run and don't look back
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Why are you with a crackhead? Call Social Services for the kids and then dump her.

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You got a new picture! i Like it!
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Thanks! It's not really new though, it's been up there before, glad ya like it, our (then) 5 year old daughter took that shot :-)
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Well cool, we probably wernt on askat the same times then. Your daughter should be a photographer when she gets older. she takes good pictures.
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Confused

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Good that you're reading "co-dependant no more". Apply what you read to your life. Cause you are, in fact, in a co-dependant relationship. Don't jusify staying for the kids.

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I would feel really confused, and i would leave her, and take the kids with me because those kids are in danger

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The mother being on drugs, is not safe for the children. Call child protective services and tell them she is doing drugs. Because you know she is doing drugs around those kids, you are responsible to report her. If you do not report her and someone else finds out what she is doing, you can be charged with abusing the children too. What she is doing is not ok, get those kids some help. Call CPS now!

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