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Why is it that people steel from me, lie to me, cheat on me, use me, abuse me emotionally and physically? I have the biggest heart.

people are just plain cruel

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im sorry but maybe your just too nice thats what i learn about life i was too nice to people and all that would happen is just be walked on now im not that person any more and i get more respect...i hope this helps

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You just answered ur own question, some people are just like that Kayla its how life goes so sorry about that though. I understand

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There's a difference between having a big heart and being a door mat. It's good to be nice to people who won't abuse you. However, you should be stern with those who do abuse your generosity. Failing to do so will just encourage their behavior, and may result in them hurting other people.

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Having the biggest heart doesn't always matter, unfortunately if you ALLOW people to treat you that way. Sometimes, people like that take your kindness for weakness, and assume they can "walk all over you". If you allow this behavior to continue, it WILL NEVER stop. You have to voice your feelings. Tell that person when what they are saying/doing is not okay. Don't idly sit back and think it will stop on it's own because chances are good it won't. I am not saying stop having a heart for other's. I am saying that there are to many people in this world who will treat you how you (and other's) deserve to be treated. Don't allow the actions of these to turn you bitter on others. Continue to treat other's as you want to be treated, just shut the door on those that refuse to give you the respect to do so.

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this helps me i know i let people take my kindness for weekness im really over it. not over having a heart but being careful of who can be let in. i need me in the end anyways and thats really alll you have in this world. ive been through shit in my past but i got to look towards MY future.
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Yup. You do you.
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I am not trying to be mean, but it is because you let them. I know because I used to like you. Walk tall and don't take crap from anyone! If they lie, steal, or cheat, walk away. No second chances. Stand tall, walk tall, hold yourself like you matter, because you do. If someone hurts you physically, call the cops! When the cops come, press charges and follow thru. You aren't the first one they hit, and unless you teach them it is wrong, you won't be the last. You will not only save yourself more grief, but you will save others grief. Use that big heart for those that deserve it, not the ones that will use it. I know you can do it!

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You probally appeal to sweet

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Just punch the people that hate square in the chicklets.

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Cause people are @ssholes :(

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It's good to have a big heart, it attracts people to you. Make appointments with the good people and don't make any appointments with the bad ones. Don't leave it up to people to make appointments with you. Be the one who does the choosing.

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An attraction towards those that carry traits of doing things as such to others is something to look for if you feel as if or are aware of this immediately seperate yourself from them .Always remember who you are and surround yourself only with people like you .Goodness will come your way once you fill your life with good kind people. The losers as such are easily found.Your a strong good spirited beautiful person through and through.

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