11:Walk with pride (Smile when your walking even if your not happy the appearance and even acting happy can make others and even your self feel better.) 12:Laugh and be joyful. (Ever notice that one guy whose popular just because hes happy and laughs at others jokes. Nobody likes to make a joke and be left hanging. This makes others feel comfortable and makes things feel more at ease.) 13:Ask questions (Dont ask what they ate for breakfast. Ask them something like do you skateboard or for girls i like your shirt where did you get it from?) 14:Find who YOU are (Know yourself and realize that confidence will take you very far. But don't worry everyone's biggest fear is there self's.) 15:Be relaxed (When you sit and dont shake your leg to much or play with your hands.) 16:Are you a leader or a follower? (Think of what you want to be.) 17:Small things (I get my eyebrows done and I keep my nails and hands clean. This is something that really helps others from judging you. DONT ALLOW PEOPLE OR YOUR SELF TO WRITE STUFF ON YOUR SKIN! IT DOESNT LOOK NATURAL AND IT CAN APPEAR STRANGE OR ODD!) *This takes time to master thats why you have to work on breathing every night before bed. **PART 2
Being yourself will earn the greatest respect out of the community. It's a brave thing to do, openly expressing yourself. I failed to do it, and I'm not really good, but you try it. It should be amazing.
Don't change, don't try to be 'cool' to be liked by other people who will forget you after some years. School isin't everything, more in life that just that, so be who you are, enjoy, and if that doesn't make you popular then you don't have to change to be so.
Why would you want everyone's attention? Do you realize how much stress that is? If you make one mistake then EVERYONE knows. Just be yourself and keep the people who are your true friends around you, and don't worry about the rest.
1. Ditch your nerd friends 2. Find out who the coolest kids are 3. Make much eye contact during class 4. Find out who's having a big party one weekend and sneak around the outside of their house looking in the windows 5. Use a duplicator machine to copy their actions 6. Make a journal of the things they do 7. Memorize the list 8. Tell your cat to memorize the list and back you up when you forget 9. Find out who the popular boys are 10. Dated three popular boys at a time 11. They'll find out you're cheating and consequently you'll become the talk of the school 12. The popular girls will hate you, becoming a scene somewhat like Mean Girls
Being "popular" means everyone likes you. Not to do wrong things just to get people to like you for something you're not. You want to be the good person you are and be kind to others and they should respect you for that! Merry Christmas! :)
Honestly people say be yourself but that's obviously what your doing now I'm not saying don't be yourself I'm just saying find out what the trends are of the "cool group"... And once you do go on a shopping trip start talking more and saying that you need to hang out with them and that you never get to see them, but still maintain a healthy relationship with your "nerd friends" and don't forget where you come from, stick with the ones you know love you for you not the things you have(:
For you to be popular you would need to be someone you're not. I wouldn't suggest being "popular". Why don't you just be yourself, Im not the most popular potato is the basket but you know what? I LOVE being a loser. And plus I really don't care lol. With the friends I have I'm good and I wouldn't trade anything for them. What you need to do is realize what you have. And that that isn't the most important thing in the world. Once you stop caring so much, these stereotypes just come at ya bro. I can admit everyone wants more friends than they have sometime, but really if you want more friends all you need to do is come out of your comfort zone and be yourself.
1:Hygiene (Nobody likes stinky breath or BO) 2:Clothing (You want them to get to know you before they judge you. You fashion magazines!) 3:Charm-Social skills (Never lie just to join the band wagon! They can tell and it will put you father back.) 4:Try not to get attention from dumb or "weird things" (No class clowns or eating things that others frown upon.) 5:Facial hygiene (Use face wash! and if your a girl do some research on make up! but don't make your make up look like you belong on the streets.) 6:Hair (Keep it clean and dandruff free! Look in fashion magazines to get an idea of whats in style.) 7:Try contacts or decent looking eye wear. (I look horrible in glasses so wear contacts.) 8:Stay in shape (Exercise! If your extremely far away from being fit just remember everyone starts somewhere. Just don't go flashing it around saying i work out until some results are noticeable.) 9:Practice breathing (Breath in for 4 seconds hold for 4 release for 4 and repeat.) *Helps with anxiety.* 10:Flirt a little with the opposite sex (Dont flirt to much or people will think some things you don't want to be! **PART 1
to be popular you usually have to be high in looks... I know it sounds bad but it's the truth... im popular just because im funny. I won class clown of class of 2016. and you have to be really nice to everybody. and you usually have to belong in the popular crowd.
You have to not care, be weird, but not twitching-creepy-eats-bugs weird, be fun, dont worry , i admit yes you do have to maybe wear some certain clothes and some certain makeup, but you should do it in your own way, wear a purple hoodie instead of everyone elses green one
Be yourself... Study.. be confident.. and be active in school's activity.. well we're talking about school here..It will make everyone stare at like you were out of their reach.. Yet.. Be cool.. and dress to impress but don't over do it.. :)