Everyone has a destiny. Your destiny and purpose is to full fill the Will Of God. You were created for His pleasure and to Worship Him. He demonstrated His Love for us by sending His Only Son Jesus to die for us so that are sins can be forgiven and that we can be reconciled to Him and have fellowship with Him.
To find respite from the suffering of the human condition, free my self from delusion and gather a support group of like minded individuals willing to take on the challenge of knowing oneself and the truth despite how it may make us feel so we can repair the condition if need be.
Ok. Seriously? God created us simply to worship him (or her)!!!! I mean what a needy god. How can we even call that a god who is so needy? I'm lost. And as for the answer, the purpose of life is to ask the question that you asked. It's all about trying to learn just a little more and find out who we truly are. So don't feel lost. You're steps ahead of those who tell you you're born for this sole reason (whatever it is)!