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How can I stop being so depressing?

I feel odd asking this RIGHT NOW because I'm actually feeling pretty good. But I lose a lot of friends like that. just wondering how I could improve.

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When something happens try to find the good in it. Say a tree falls on your garage. Instead focusing on the mess and the repair, focus on the car wasn't in it. You can still get around.

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I wish i knew the answer to that. I feel the same way

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Try watching more funny things... Or just fake laugh...

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Ah... Comedy. :)
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Make it a New Years Resolution to get more FUN friends -

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Dont think negative, always think positive things in your life &' don't let anything bring you down :)

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Keep your depressing thoughts to yourself

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Or just don't answer. Besides, I never said I was being depressing NOW.
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Are you kidding me? It's an answer to your question
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Oh. Damnit. Sorry, seriously. Maybe I am in a mood. Seriously though, sorry.
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Yea frind shes not mad so good buy!!
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Sorry:)
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What? Whatever, really I'm sorry if I offended anyone. :(
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You did not offined(i did not spell that right)me:)
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Be happy:) i know a secret to be happy all the time

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So, I gather since you are aware of losing friends over this, there is a problem. Are you just always a negative person? I don't know if this is what you meant, as you were not specific, but if that is the case, I would stop. Even if you are THINKING something negative, don't let it come out of your mouth, unless it is very seriously something you need to discuss with others. Nobody likes to be around a "down" person, because the saying IS true, that misery loves company. Be positive. Be upbeat. Be focused on good things. Always try to find a better out look at anything you are dealing with. You should see results in no time, especially in how YOU are feeling, and if you are feeling good, chances are you are fun to be around.

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Great answer clickety.
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I'm not negative all the time. I guess that's good. It's just little pockets sometimes. Or something like that.
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Thanks Cj! @Squally---you may be negative more than you think or are aware of if you are losing friends. Not a fact, just a thought.
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I see....maybe I should hire someone to follow me with a camera and watch it after.....
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Meaning what's the question? U say u lost a lot friends!
What happen? I would need to know more?
on understand the question!

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I guess I really should've put in more. Sorry! Well, the thing is I can get really depressing and negative a lot. I get annoyed easily when I get in these moods, and my friends, or people I hang out with sometimes, get freaked out and leave. The question is how can I be more positive. Now that I think about it all that was pointless...
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Nan not at all! Meaning a saying I've herd before if u meet ur father kill ur father if u
Meet the Buddha kill the Buddha live the life that is giving to u don't live any other life!
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meditation say your favorite word over and over again till it becomes the only thought then get rid of it and concentrate on breathing only very powerful stuff be carful

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