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How can i make the feeling of wanting to have a boyfriend go away? Plz read...

Im 20 yrs old, i have my job and since im still going to college i dont really think im ready for a serious relationship commitment because i still want to go out and have fun with my friends without any problems.. But i cant seem to stop thinking that i really want to be with someone...
And im not really talking to any guy...i didnt have much luck with guys this year.. I really really want to get rid of that feeling...
Any tips?

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You actually answered your question. You are not ready for a commitment. You sound like you know what you want, you just probably see other people in a relationship and wonder about it..Keep busy with your friends, school work, sports etc..music...movies..

But, you might find a guy who feels the same way along the way..Being friends is the first step in finding a soul mate. There is nothing wrong in finding a guy you can just be yourself with and enjoy a night out once in awhile..

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I agree with tonifitch.
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ty..you're kind
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You can't. If you want a guy you want a guy you can't stop the feeling. I want a boyfriend right now also, and I'd like to rid that feeling but I just feel like I need someone special in my life to love me and be my valentine :)

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As a male, the best advice I can give is to think like a person who has just enlisted into a really prestigious school. Not many people in their right mindset would be too enthusiastic about getting into a relationship when they have important matters that they have to classify and spend more time with.

You should distract yourself with more important matters, or create a new hobby or something to do on the computer or your profession. By distracting yourself, the feeling and urge to get into a relationship will probably disappear slowly.

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Get a boyfriend!!

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