That's a risk everybody takes when they use a condom. If you do end up pregnant he is either going to stand by you or he won't. You need to do what's best for you and worry about him later. Worst case scenario is that you are pregnant and he leaves. What does that say about his character as a man? You don't need someone in your life that wouldn't be there for you when you needed him most. He may end up surprising you and sticking around so don't worry until there's something to worry about. Good luck!
If he would break up with you if you end up pregnant, NO MORE SEX WITH HIM!!! You don't do the crime (having sex) if you can't do the time (sticking together through the pregnancy). This is the problem with people having sex, but not being married. Birth control can & does fail, so you have to be prepared in case it does.
There us no way to have sex without the possibility of getting pregnant. Just wondering, what's concerning you the most? Is it that you may be pregnant when you aren't prepared to do that, or is it that this guy may turn out to be the jerk you fear he is that would walk away (or run) after shagging and making a baby.
If you and your "bf", had sex, then he obviously was more than a "bf", friends are just that, not sexual partners. It is also obvious that nether of you are prepared for a pregnancy. If it turns out you are pregnant, you will have three choices: a) birth & raising the child. b) birth & giving the child up for adoption. c) abortion. I would suggest you find out if you indeed are pregnant, then figure out which option is best for you. Planned Parenthood can help you, if you don't have an adult who can.
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How about you don't stress out until you find out you really are pregnant, then decide what to do. Either way the guy doesn't sound like someone worth continuing to have sex with. oh and p.s. if you are pregnant -- ADOPTION. I wouldn't be here today without it. and my kids are glad I was adopted too.