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What should I make of his behavior?

My boyfriend lives in a different city and all this time has been trying to move closer so we could be together he then tells me he may take longer to move here and then he started telling me about 2 girls that try to flirt with him all the time. I told him i did not trust him and he got mad at me and told me to decide if I wanted to be with him.

The next day he calls me back after I left him a message only to tell me that he is trying to take his life. He kept texting me sad messages and when i tried to call him he would keep hanging up. I was afraid for him and had to tell someone so I called his mom and told her what was going on with him. He then calls me and tells me "what the f*** is wrong with you, if you have a problem talk to me", and then he hung up and i have not heard from him since he even changed his phone#.

At this point I am very sad and confused did he ever love me and what should I make of this? We were friends for over a year and together for 3 months, so I am devastated. Any help or advice please.

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Forget about him, he has obviously lost his marbles. Sounds like he's just trying to get attention from you. You don't need this rubbish, just move along, try to stop thinking about him. Stop trying to contact him, he doesn't deserve your effort, because he obiously doesn't have regard for your feelings. He doesn't love you, you need to at least care about the other persons feelings AT LEAST to love them. What he does is his business, nothing to do with you. If he's willing to pick up the phone when his mum calls, but not you, it just seems like he's trying to demand your attention. Stuff him, probably nothing you do would make him happy/normal.

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Sweetie, you are taken with an unstable young man. He might not be capable of loving anyone for more than short periods of time before his true nature reasserts itself. This is not your fault, and to be brutally frank with you, you are much, much better off without him. I'd take this opportunity to run away from him as fast as you can. If he never comes back, so much the better. Please don't blame yourself, and don't let yourself be taken in by this mentally unstable person.

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He is an a** & if you lived together he will show you that more often. Consider this a blessing that you didn't have kids with him too. He'd just disappear when things don't go perfect & leave you feeling like you were to blame. Trust me, you are not in charge of HIS happiness, you are in charge of your own. You got a clean break.

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he is a jerk who don't deserve a nice girl like you dump him and don't talk to him no more he was yelling at you for no reason and he hung up cause he probably was cheating on u with the two girls he said were flirting with Jim but he probably was flirting with them so o think for your sake move on find a real man who will do everything to make you happy and never ignore u and never do anything bad or mean if I were him I'd move closer right away and call u every day just to say I love you thtd be what a real man would do

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If your questioning what you should do, you obviously don't trust him, & for good reason. That alone is grounds for wanting someone in your life who you can trust, LIVE near, and know your not taking it day by day. This man lives in a different place, and meets a new girl every day I am sure, that can't be reassuring. You deserve someone you can actually grow with.

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