No, its probably not. I actually had the hots for one of my cousins when I was a teenager, but I didn't have the rocks to tell her that. If I told her that now, it would just confirm what the rest of the family probably thinks of me. (That I'm kinkier and more perverse than ever because the cousin I'm thinking of the last time I saw her had quite the cargo she was carrying around in her "bobtail" and my tastes have now "graduated" to the extremely "Rubenesque". I don't expect you to understand this response, but mainly those who are monitoring me closely. Yeah "YOU" How ya doing? (No, not you the questioner,) but "them" (They know who they are)
If he's just calling you "hot", that's okay. If he does like my cousin tried on me....calls you "hot" and tries to put his hands all over you...that's not okay. At that point you slap the snot out of him. Just saying!
Haha, if they are really young its cute. I once had a little 1 or 2 yr old cousin kiss me on the lips good night. It was like lips in my lips action, not just a peck on the surface. This was after holding me and looking into my eyes for a few intense seconds. It was the cutest thing that has ever happened to me ever, he was such a sweetie! It was a surprise though. He got in trouble from the rest of the family and sent to bed, but I thought it was adorable! If he was like 7 or 8 or something, I would have been angry and stopped visiting for his sake.