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Here's how it goes, and please tell me why is she mad at me, if you have a guess.
Me: Be right back, playing an app for a few minutes.
Friend: *goes offline*
Me: Never mind, you're offline.
Friend: *comes back online* WELL ARE YOU STILL ON AN APP
*literally 5 seconds later*
NO DUH
Me: Not really.
Friend: WELL THAT'S NOT AN ANSWER
(yes, she's using all caps)
Me: Um, be right back.
Friend: NOT REALLY MEANS YOU ARE AND YOU ARE NOT
IT DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE
Me: I said: Be right back.
Friend: Well are you back
Me: Not yet, be right back
*after 2 minutes*
Friend: Hi are you back yet?
Me: I'll tell you when I'm back, but I'm kinda busy right now.
Friend: Whatever

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She was upset and wanted a soothing response from you. Instead, you said you were busy...I'd be upset too. Apologize, you screwed up!

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She lies to me a BUNCH and she keeps backstabbing me, plus when I asked another friend to ask her who was her best friend (who she SHOULD'VE replied me) she replied a different name.
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Little One, you asked why she was mad at you, your comment here has nothing to do with your question or my answer. If you don't want to be her best friend, then don't be, but don't blame her for what you've done.
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I have to go with koichan on this one. You were given an honest answer to the question you posed, which you also specified were opinions. Because you did not like the answer, you jumped down koichan's throat and threw in a tangent that was not mentioned in your question.
I believe an apology to koichan is warranted.
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Thanks for your support Lynne, it is appreciated. I do not have any expectation that she will apologize, she's too immature to see what is going on in her life or accept help.
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koichan, again I have to agree with you. I'm just glad that there are people such as yourself, here on Ask. I know if I need an honest opinion to a question, there are those that I can rely on.
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Thanks again, Lynne, you're a Pip! (My stepdad used to say that, it means top of the line, cream of the crop, belle of the ball.)
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Maybe she had something really big and important she wanted to talk to you about and she needed her friend and felt like you were choosing an app or game over her.

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give her a quarter and tell her to go buy a life..and get over it

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Eh, she backstabbed me once, so I won't talk to her anymore, plus she keeps lying to me. Thanks for the advice!
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no prob....keep your head up
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Have many friends, letty?
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who me?
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Yes you. If you treat your friends like you told Death to treat hers, it sounds like a problem to me.
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nah..i have very good friends..my friends and i have been friends since grades school and i also have friends i hang with i have friends from work and became close. If you treat me like shit you will b treated like that in return.all my friend can tell you i will give you the shirt off my back if you needed it.
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Would you treat your friends like Death treated hers? Tell them "here's a quarter, go buy a life? I'm betting you would not do such an ugly thing, it is telling that person they are of no value to you, and you do not care anything about having hurt their feelings, you just want them to go away and leave you alone. I did not hear anything in her question about being treated like "sh*t." I am not convinced about the back stabbing part, and so what if she said someone else was her bestie, someone else would be mine too if anyone treated me like death treated her.
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what, where did all this hostility come from, she did not take no offense. This is not about u. Y you riding my. it is a figure of speech. and yes i have told my friend that before and they know its just a slang thing..omg get a hold of yourself read that conversation..its petty..
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You were telling this person to tell a person whose feelings she had hurt to go ... That is very unfeeling and unkind, I find myself getting hostile when people are unkind, and you, young lady, were telling death to be unkind to the friend she already hurt...that is more than a figure of speech, read it yourself and then tell me if I'm the one being petty or if it is you.
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get over it...
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She probably wants attention or feels annoyed and blows up on you. It happens all the time. The next day she'll probably be like "hey" and act like it never happened.

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Maybe playing on an app while talking to your friend is kinda rude... It's like someone texting while they're talking to you

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Well a while ago my friend freaked out on me and called me low. i just didnt talk to her and when she talked to me i didnt give much answer, she apologized.

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My friend backstabbed me once, and she keeps lying to me, so I don't really know.
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Are you saying I backstabbed my friend? or am I interpreting that wrong? Because she even apoligized and said she was just being stupid.
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No, I wasn't saying that. It's just that my friend backstabbed me, and ditched me a few times, so I'm not sure about what to do, but it's all good now with us, don't worry. Thanks for answering!
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I think I'd be upset also. She wanted to interact socially with you and instead your game/ App was more important to you then your friendship with her.

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It seems to me like you weren't making your friend a priority, that your app seemed more important than her, at the time. Her feelings were hurt.

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I agree on this and many of your answers. Ask is lucky to have you here answering people's questions. Star
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Oh wow. That is THEE very nicest thing anyone has ever said to me on here, and there have been some nice things. I am truly touched. THANK YOU SO, SO MUCH, Lynnelynne!!! <3
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You're very welcome, you deserve the acknowledgement. Thank you again for making this Site one I look forward to visiting.
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Aww. :$<--- (blush emoticon) ;)
Thanks again. That's a wonderful thing to say. = )
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What nonsense. Seriously, if this would cause a rift between you, it's time to reconsider what you classify as a friendship. If anything, what you presented as evidence makes you look like the inconsiderate one.

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I completely agree with you. Star for you.
You're profile intrigues me. I'd love to have visited all the places you've been. Heck, even a quarter of them.
No, I'm not a stalker or a teenager, just wanted to show you respect.
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Thanks, Lynne. It's been quite an odyssey, I've been really fortunate.
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And may your fortune continue! My best to you, Z!
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