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Yesterday, I had a serious talk to my 16 year old son Alex about his actions. Read description.

My Son Alex is 16. He's been watching porn and then and being a complete jerk to his mom and he's breaking curfue and staying out untill 3 in the morning. he broke his mom's wrist the other day because he grabbed it and twisted it. and he actually peed on her.... i don't know what to do. i've grounded him from his car and hes not allowed to go out with friends but he breaks the lock on his door and goes out anyway...and he has a sense that he can pee wherever he wants to..hes out of control.. I had a talk with him about his behavior and he opened up to me saying he didnt want to go get help and that he didn't know how to handle anything...and then he says no strangers or hell freak..whut to do

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The Baker Act gives you the authority to have him taken against his permission in cases like his. This boy has psychological problems and may be acting out against his own control. He needs help. He can be committed for psych eval against his will. And needs to be!

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please check this persons questions on his profile. He fluctuates between being the kid and being the dad. This is a fake question.
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Whoa!!! Good work B !
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cerebrogasm's following him! Prob'ly for a good laugh!!!
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Ha! I wonder what will happen.
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Boot camp

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Let's see how "tough" he is in boot camp. See how many wrists he breaks in there. I betcha they would whip him into shape....
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please check this persons questions on his profile. He fluctuates between being the kid and being the dad. This is a fake question.
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Yeah, I just gathered that. Thanks. i don't know why some people want to waste other peoples time.
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I just read his other post(s)/questions. He also says that the "Mother" has cancer, and his "twin sister" died from cancer at 11 yoa. And, he has reposted the same comment to almost every answer somebody has tried to help him with. Very disturbing to say the least. Gig's up for me.
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Me too. I went to his other question and posted references to his dad/son questions.
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good for you. Glad you were so observant!! Saved all of us a lot of time.
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Boot camp find the hardest one and ship him off it might be hard but its for the best.

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please check this persons questions on his profile. He fluctuates between being the kid and being the dad. This is a fake question.
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Not true. A mentally ill kid who gets his chuckles from sucking in good people with another fake story like this would not be sharing an account with his father where both of you could see what the other is up to. Get some help, after leaving Ask. Leave Ask first.
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My brother did some pretty bad stuff too about a year ago. But talking never worked with him. Grounding didn't either. You have to think of a harsher punishment that will stop him from doing it again.

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please check this persons questions on his profile. He fluctuates between being the kid and being the dad. This is a fake question.
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Wow he be trollin'
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how am i trollin?
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this is a shared family account
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Not true. A mentally ill kid who gets his chuckles from sucking in good people with another fake story like this would not be sharing an account with his father where both of you could see what the other is up to. Get some help, after leaving Ask. Leave Ask first.
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If he is like that, I would agree with the toughest boot camp around. Make sure he learns to never act like this.

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But when you take him to boot camp, lie about where you are going

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A shared account
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Not true. A mentally ill kid who gets his chuckles from sucking in good people with another fake story like this would not be sharing an account with his father where both of you could see what the other is up to. Get some help, after leaving Ask. Leave Ask first.
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How come you two started talking under my comment..haha
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Today's answer is the same as yesterday's answer with this addition. If he doesn't want counseling use that as incentive to keep him from acting out. Tell him that if he has another outburst it's straight to the psych doc.

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please check this persons questions on his profile. He fluctuates between being the kid and being the dad. This is a fake question.
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Not true. A mentally ill kid who gets his chuckles from sucking in good people with another fake story like this would not be sharing an account with his father where both of you could see what the other is up to. Get some help, after leaving Ask. Leave Ask first.
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Maybe he needs some serious attention,he seems to have a very careless and violent behavior,you should take him to a boot camp or something where he can actually learn to behave and respect.Good luck.

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please check this persons questions on his profile. He fluctuates between being the kid and being the dad. This is a fake question.
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Not true. A mentally ill kid who gets his chuckles from sucking in good people with another fake story like this would not be sharing an account with his father where both of you could see what the other is up to. Get some help, after leaving Ask. Leave Ask first.
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You need to take him to a psychiatrist. From his actions, it seems he may have some mental issues. He may need medication or even time in the Psychiatric Ward if it is bad and he could hurt someone.

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please check this persons questions on his profile. He fluctuates between being the kid and being the dad. This is a fake question.
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When does it do this? I read through it and couldn't find any inconsistencies.
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Lol never mind just read some of his other things. He be trollin' they hatin'.
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Not true. A mentally ill kid who gets his chuckles from sucking in good people with another fake story like this would not be sharing an account with his father where both of you could see what the other is up to. Get some help, after leaving Ask. Leave Ask first.
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Rathskeale, please be kind.
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Ppuzzler, lots of good people spent lots of time offering compassion to this person when he was pretending to be the father and then the son. They are fake questions. He is playing all of us for suckers. That is why I am so harsh. He entertains himself with our concerns for a suffering family.
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I understand that, but being rude toward Adriannas609 was unnecessary.
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I felt it was essential so that he would get the point.
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He needs God in his life. Do you have a paster or youth minister that could work with him?

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seriously, ya have to bring relligion into this???
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Yep. Everybody needs God. That's what's wrong with this world
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I don't need god.
Go ahead -- eat from the Tree of Knowledge and learn a few things.
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Everyone needs God whether they want to admit it or not
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Broke moms wrist? Peed on her? Call the cops and get him in the system. You'll come home and find mom dead sometime. This is serious, peeing on someone is through the roof callous disrespect! His therapy needs to be court ordered and tracked, you are in jeopardy yourself. You will not be betraying him, but helping him and others should he become serial. If you don't do something and he goes berserk, you'll never forgive yourself, anyone else either.

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Amen!
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If you're comfortable with going through with it, attempt to get a DVO out on him for his mother's protection. They can be renewed (which is easier than having to get a new one after it expires), and he will be punished for any physical violence he uses against her. I know a man who lived with his mum, and was violent towards her. She got a DVO on him, and he stopped for a long time. A couple of days before the DVO ran out, he gave up on his self control, and broke his mother's wrist. He went to jail (and his mum got put out work for a while). I've since stopped associating with him, so I don't know if he's out yet, but this all happened almost a year ago. This may help him to think twice about the physical violence aspect of things, as for the peeing etc., no clue. Kicking him out could easily make things a lot worse for him. a DVO can be a bit difficult to get, but it would likely help a lot.

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please check this persons questions on his profile. He fluctuates between being the kid and being the dad. This is a fake question.
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Oh, thanks. Well at least the kid is getting told he's well on the way to jail, and he'll inevitably go there if he doesn't snap out of it, probably sooner than he thinks it will happen.
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Estelle, I think you are right about this troll's future. He's going to end up as the girlfriend of the guy with the most smokes.
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haHA!! Better start warming up mate.
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Ha!!! I nobody falls asleep around this troll...........might not wake up. Or, if they do, they have, at the very least, been peed on.
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Yeah. If anyone ever intentionally pees on me, ever, I'd disown them and never speak to them again. Husband, parent or child, I don't care. That's messed up.
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You are both right. I warned everybody on both dad/teen questions. A third was removed.
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Thanks for the heads up :)
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Well 14 hours ago you said YOU were 16 and that YOUR name was Alex.

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Shared account!
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I thought this might be a fluke.
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Thank you for checking
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Ha! Haven't lost my touch!
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...glad you are so observant. I just read that profile. Also says the Mother has cancer and the twin sister died of cancer.
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Seriously? I missed that!
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Let me get my hanky. It's moments like this . . .
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Ha!!! Hey Rath, here, take my hanky. <wipes tear>
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Oh no! They're CROCODILE years!
No hanky required!
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Ha!!! Naw they weren't crocodile tears..... lol <takes hanky back>
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You asked something similar to this yesterday :/

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please check this persons questions on his profile. He fluctuates between being the kid and being the dad. This is a fake question.
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I know I asked but hes confusing me. hes at the phychiatrist now
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If he is at the phychiatrist now, and you are so concerned, why are you NOT with him? Or, is this Alex? Who are you??? Did you actually think nobody on here wasn't smarter than you? Pleazzzzzzzzzzz
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You're going to get the same answers today that you got yesterday. Take the kid by the scruff of the neck and drag him to the police station and get him some help. If he were my kid, he'd need stitches and a couple of casts. He's totally disrespecting you and your wife, there is NO excuse for that.

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Thanks Rathkeale.
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How is this situation working out? What is being done w/Alex so far? How's his mother's arm?

Alex, in case that's you logged on and not your dad I thought I'd let you know we're doing this for your good-not just your mom's. I want the best for you.
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Sparlee, this is a fake, made-up, fabricated, pretend question.
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I agree with the boot camp too. The kid needs to be LOCKED up since you're not doing him any favors by allowing him to remain in a situation where he's going to continue to pee on people-especially his parents, watch porn, stay out til 3 am even when he's grounded, or refuse help.

I agree with taking him to the toughest boot camp around. I usually don't condone lying but you may have to do it to get him to go-unless you can get the police to take him in handcuffs.

If you don't do something soon while he's underage you may end up with an out-of-control grown-up under your roof for the next 10-20 years who will behave that way-if not worse. I have a friend with a mentally daughter.

Either my friend's daughter lives with her, in jail, prison, or on the streets. No one else will have her. She moves her violent boyfriends who do drugs and have done time in prison into the house and runs the house whether her mom likes it or not.

I hate to say it but Alex is more of a "handful" at age 16 than my friend's daughter and her ex-con boyfriends put together.

Also, pray for him. I have a wooden plaque that says "When all else fails try a prayer."


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I checked the profile and don't see the inconsistency. He may have given you that impression when asking how you set up a Wii. You know how kids love their video games-and a lot of adults like them too.

It's possible that Alex's father got the Wii for his sons and needed to know how to set it up for them. Or maybe he or his wife may like the games themselves.
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If you look under recent questions, not answers, you can see Q from both the dad and son. One question from the son was removed. It's all there.
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I forgot to say that if this question had been real, your thoughtful answer was impressive.
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Thanks for the compliment. Seems as though this is quite confusing the family having a shared account with it being the son one minute and the dad next.

Of course if Alex has a paternal grandfather who's ailing and/or cantankerous old man-then his father can also be a son who has something to say-being frustrated with or concerned about his own father. This can complicate things further.

But I want Alex's parents to feel comfortable approaching Ask if his grandparents are difficult to deal with or in need of help themselves.
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Alex's "parents " wouldn't write with the grammar, tone, and spelling in the question above! Yesterday the dad came on and asked advice. Now this is his son coming on. Can't you see the way it's worded and spelled ? Obviously his dad had him see the responses from his own inquiry from yesterday or this kid found out. I just hope his parents aren't hurt or worse in a closet somewhere and we see this whole thing on the news in a few days.
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I got a list of choices;
-Boot Camp
-Psychiatrist
-Or, Juvenal detention center.

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he should b in jail for breaking his mothers wrist. or where ever they send 16 yr olds. he violent. let professionals deal with him before one of you. is really hurt or killed. dont think of him as your son he s not. get him out of your home now. I will say a prayer for all of you

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Punishment won't work. Hide something that he loves and don't let him know where it is.

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Yeah! You are correct.
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Everyone; please check this persons questions on his profile. He fluctuates between being the kid and being the dad. This is a fake question.

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Good work!
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Thanks Ms.C and Ms.C. I like to warn people.
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Nope. There's no way a dad and son would have a shared account where they could see each others questions and answers. Especially THESE questions and answers. You wasted a lot of people's precious time.
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A LOT of our time...smh I see you can't even come back and acknowledge anything...chicken
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Thank YOU Ranthkeale. I don't have time for idiots.
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Thanks Rath-this is the second question like this and besides these good people here, Cereb and a lot of others put their time in on this yesterday when it was asked the first time.
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Thanks everyone. I need to spend more time checking serious questions like this. I don't get how fraud passes as entertainment. Thanks to Candybar.
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Rathkeale, I'm really trying to be fair to both you and "Alex's father." I did look on his profile for the claims this person is the son as well as the father. I even asked a question myself on how to find ALL the questions asked by a member admitting I'm new and that it was about a 16-year-old boy named Alex who broke his mother's wrist and peed on her.

I wonder if the father or the son stole the other one's password to use the site.
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Well, on another comment further down sparkielee, "adrianna609" posts that "he" is at the psychiatrist now. If he is worried enough to post enough "questions for help" on ask.com, why is he on here, instead of at the doctor with his SON where he BELONGS??? ha.....I agree with you about trying to give him the benefit of the doubt or be fair, but I'm just not buying it anymore.
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sorry spark. The comment is above. On Princesspuzzlers post
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I saw the comment from the user who posted about the 16 year old son. He said "joint account" which explains it. I read in terms of agreement that I had to be at least 13 years of age to have an account w/any "dot com" I sign up with on the Internet & if I'm at least 13 but under 18 I'd have to get permission from a parent or guardian to sign up. Alex's age is between 13 and 18-so his dad may have chosen to have a joint account. And Alex (and maybe his brothers) may have posted or answered questions themselves on it.

And I accept your apology on this, Clickety Clack. I know I overlooked the father's comment of "joint account" and I think that's easy to do.
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thanks. I would hate to judge somebody or not try to help if I were wrong, and I cannot say with 100% certainty who it is, or what the case is, so I am going to sit back and see what the next post brings. Anything is possible. thanks again.
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I see Rathkeale's comment "I like to warn people." Sometimes we need to be cautioned by others. A favorite saying of mine is "caveat emptor" which is Latin for "Let the buyer beware."
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..........I like that! I will remember that. (actually I'll write it down, because who am I fooling??? I would NEVER remember that! haha) That's great!
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U need to get some one he is scared of like mabey his dad

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well telling the facts cuz i have been pass through that he's been addicted to drugs nothing can help at this stage so talking increase the issue so try to make him happy and get him anything he want's at home but don't let him hangout too much with his frnds at night as well as day time

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ahhh i don't like this kind of peson putting fake thing up
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Yeah, it really bugs me too.
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send him to a group home or juvi

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I would agree with the person who suggested that he needs God in his life, but as recent events have shown us, he also needs psychiatric help. First they need to rule out a physical cause and go from there.

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Therapist
Military School
Boot Camp
Or use threats, like to take away all the t.v's, computers, and his phone.
Try getting a professional to lock his doors and windows. If you are 2 cheap, buy
4 locks, use super glue, and shove bricks under his door. Do the same on windows.
-Hope this helped!

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Adrianna. If this is a real problem for you, YOU need to get help. Talk won't fix things. I know, all to well. I'm Alex after 15 years in prison. Air looses value when used to talk to someone like Alex. If your not able to do something harsh, at least make your we and other children go some where away from U and A. It will be a shame for them to keep suffering and possibly die. If U die, sorry. If they get hurt, U should go to jail with Alex.
If this is a b.s. posting, $_);?=_&&):

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Get him checked. He prob has a disability or a tumor on the brain where he can't control what he is doing.

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Boot camp or juvie

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this might be the opposite of what others say, but just love him. i'm sure you do, but show him. show him that he is loveable and has value, and that you truly care for him and love him. pour out our love on him until your love drowns him. and most importantly pray.

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I am a successful parent and can give you great advice. I was the same way as a teenager only preferred #2 instead of number 1. Be thankful your son chooses to pee-much cleaner. I recommend doing the action with him or on him. It will show him how ridiculous his actions are. Weed is also proven to improve urine problems and even improves smell. I would discuss medicinal marijuana with his doctor. Good luck and happy peeing

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Ignore him and warn him about the causes of what he is doing. Tell him how much you love him and say that sometimes bad things happen to good people.

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