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why can't we all leave each other alone, religious belief-wise?

why do people have to criticize someone else's beliefs? I get very offended when every atheist i meet tells me that Christianity is nonsense, and that I have no "proof" God exists. stating that is really just an opinion. I don't go around telling others what to believe in, and questioning their beliefs, it's their choice! I'm just so puzzled at why so many atheists are very loud, rude and offensive when it comes to religion...? can't we all just get over it?

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Well you seem to forget that this is not one sided. I have too many religious people telling me that god is real, and I'm going to go to hell everywhere I go. I can't even tell my parents that I'm an atheist, because they would think I'm an evil person and disown me.

Don't make massive assumptions about a certain group of people, because you will almost always be wrong.

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hello, I didn't say all atheists are that way.
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"I get very offended when every atheist I meet tells me that Christianity is nonsense...."
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"every atheist I meet". not "every atheist in the world". so no I didn't. and it wasn't my intention to come off that way.
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devilcupcakes: I agree with you, and i feel the same way...
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Talk to me when you have matured more, cupcakes. I can't even deal with you right now.
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calling me immature? okay..? that's really quite a false accusation on your part.
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thanks pontes.
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I feel 'ya...but I'm waiting for a riot to start about how God is real coming on this question.

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its not just atheists. i am Muslim and i have had more Christians do that to me then atheists.
its the individual person, not the actual religion. its just closes mindedness, nothing more.

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yeah i agree with you
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Well said.
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thank you all, thank you very much *takes a bow* :)
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Very nice statement TFF.
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thanks :)
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Phlorence_602

That´s the society, and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.
All you need to do is focus on what you believe, and not
let what people say get to you. Period.

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Thanks John :)
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agreed
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Robot-freak
WOW seems like you're not a little girl !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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She's not ! She's a smart teenager !
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i know :)
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haha
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Stupid, I know. I always try to be not at all judgmental on that subject, and the only time I'll criticize someone is after they criticize me. But honestly, none of us really know.

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They can't help it. Their blinded to the truth. Don't act surprised about it. Jesus said these things would happen. Just pray God opens their eyes before it's to late.

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Before it's too late? That sounds like a threat... which it is. Christians go around threatening people like this all the time. Carrot and stick... false hope and threats of torture. And yet Christians are blind to the truth that this is an extortion racket, a wicked con trick. They fell for it and they want everybody else to fall for it too.

It would be irresponsible for those of us who have seen it for the con that it is to let others keep being suckered into it.
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James is a bright fellow, but his view of all things is filtered thru dense Christianity.
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That is how some people are. Some people just judge and criticize you can't really change me. Trust me Ive tried with my grandmother but nothing changes

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First off not all atheist are like that second off some Christians are like that to you can't judge all atheist on what some do!!! I am a atheist and I don't do that unless they start a fight than I will defend myself!!!

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I see atheist do that more than Christians though. and they're much more harsh that Christians.
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and did I say that all atheists are that way? didn't think so.
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Well actually me to me A LOT of Christians do that to me just because I don't believe in god and I no u didnt say we are all like that I just thought you should no
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Christians push their beliefs and cause more violence and intolerance over them then we ever could.
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Well in their eyes, they think their religion is real(Well, I think so too) so they correct others. It's basically like saying 2 plus 2 is 4, not 5.

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Try not to lose faith in Atheists devilcupcakes! I realize that sounds weird, but there are atheists out there who are perfectly at peace with people of faith, and believe that everyone has a right to their own opinion. Maybe these people are generally less inclined to discuss religion which is why you may not have met any yet? It could also have something to do with if they were brought up to be accepting of others beliefs. But I won't stick up for Atheists who criticize anyone else for their chosen beliefs, it offends me too, because they give all us Atheists a bad reputation.

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My input on this. I am Christian, but not just atheists are very loud, rude, and offensive when it comes to religion. Some are very respectful about your beliefs, just like you are respectful of theirs. But, Christians also are very loud, rude and offensive, when it comes to people saying that they don't believe in God. It really goes both ways.

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Very well said.
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Good for you Jocie.
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From what I see, whenever there is a tragedy, the President or whoever is speaking out about it must say a prayer to God. If he dares to say he doesn't believe in God, I don't want to think what will happen...

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When you look at the history of christian bigotry and have tons of christians tell you that you deserve to be tortured for eternity, instill false beliefs into children, tons of christians that see it as their mission to stop certain couples from marrying, christians saying that kids deserve to burn in hell, christian creationists trying to force creationism into schools to weaken this counties failing schools even further, christians saying aids are better than condoms, then christians have the nerve to go and knock on my door when I keep telling them to go away, and so much more. Stuff like this seems to eliminate any sympothy for christianity and when someone is trying advocate any of these things or say that they're true then I will absolutely refute them.

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Fantastic answer!
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I've never seen or even heard of any of that happening... you have your opinions and you're entitled to them, but you really don't gain any respect by shouting at innocent people like me about how "you're wrong and I'm right". there's no need for that. you don't see me telling you that you're going to hell, do you? so why take out your anger on Christians who are happy in their beliefs? I actually RESPECT people for their beliefs. but I do not respect people who think it's alright to judge based on their religious belief.
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The question wasn't: what bugs you about Christians", it was talking about mutual acceptance, which mean tolerance on your part, and everyone elses.
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estelle is right. you're taking my question and turning it into a "I hate Christians" forum...
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The question was actually "why can't we all leave each other alone, religious belief-wise?"

She answered the question technically...
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sure - she answered it childishly.
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And your question was an "Atheists are loud, rude, and offensive" statement, where you were just trying to start an argument.
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uhh, wasn't trying to start an argument... I figured that much is pretty obvious... just like there are Christians in the world who shove religion in people's faces - I agree that happens as well.
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I remember talking to you only one other time and that was about noahs ark, which is proven false. What so many religious folk fail to realize is there are things called facts and not everything is just an opinion or belief. And it doesn't matter how nice you say things on here. If you even try and have a tiny debate with most people on here then they usually just end up taking offense to the fact that you disagree with them and anything you you say after (true or false) is taken as an insult. And all of that has absolutely happened and is still happening. It's part of the baggage that many try to ignore.
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I stalked up on your profile and it seems you really enjoy getting into religious arguments. that's something I expect from a 12 year old.
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No it's not pretty much obvious. You were trying to start something by accusing all athesits of forcing their beliefs on others, and you've started it
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"What so many religious folk fail to realize is there are things called facts and not everything is just an opinion or belief."
that's exactly what i mean in my details about how atheist demand this "proof". it's getting ridiculous.
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no, I really wasn't. I just want people to see that we're all different and theres no reason to mock others beliefs.
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Yeah, and I think we had the discussion of courtesy a few hours ago. Btw @devilcupcakes, my previous comment was aimed at your post following @ninja, further up, in reply to "fantastic answer". Anyways, I had this discussion in another thread, and I really don't feel like contributing the same stuff all over again.
Good chat guys, see ya.
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Ok, officially jumping back in. Firstly @devilcupcakes, discussing religious beliefs is not a trait of 12yr olds only, it is a perfectly acceptable topic for people of any age to discuss.Secondly, you on one hand say you don't want mocking, but you seem pretty comfortable not practicing what you preach.
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Why would I ever respect a religion that leads people to do things like this. I'm not going to censor every word I have to say because some christian might not like it. Ex. Saying someone is ignorant when they are being ignorant is not wrong.
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...? I'm not mocking anyone...
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then trusty- that doesn't make you a very good person.
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I have only met a very few christians on here that I am able to actually have civil discussions with because they don't take offense to every tiny disagreement that we have and we can talk about other things besides religion.
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You mightn't personally perceive it as being wrong, but regardless, when discussing religion, it is never a good policy to criticize others. Be satisfied with your beliefs and don't try to impose them on others. You obviously know that its frustrating to have your beliefs criticized, so don't do it to others. Let them be, and they'll let you be.
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ever thought that maybe the problem is not the person getting offended, it's you? hmm?
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I have only met one so far who has similar views on the topic as me, which is @creston19
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geez, I just want everyone to stop mocking Christianity, and to get along. that's all I want.
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It's really being criticized that makes me angry. I don't care if someone thinks I'm being mean or intolerant. It's all the unjust judgments that I can't stand and everyone, for some reason, just hates being corrected when they are factually wrong. I don't comment on every person answer that says "I love god!" and say that god is fake.
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but you constantly mock us for our beliefs! you've done that to me on several occasions...
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Treat others how you want to be treated. If you don't like the way it feels to be criticized, don't cause the other person to feel it by criticizing them.
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You just don't get it, cupcakes. YOU are responsible for your own actions and hateful comments towards a very large group of people.
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Christianity is not a religion that deserves much respect. Notice how most atheists don't bash many other religions. That's because most other religions haven't caused or effected things like christianity has. If I live Afghanistan then I'd probably be speaking against Islam (not publicly) more than christianity. I live in America where 3/4 of the people are christian and I have to deal with this.
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Please refer me to the comments I made. So far, I feel I've only criticized you FOR THE FACT YOU CRITICIZE their religion/beliefs. I'm basically just trying to say that there is no need to undermine their religion. No need. Religious topics can easily be discussed without debating who is right or wrong. A successful discussion consists of the parties having the opinion of, I believe...for this reason...The end. Then the other person expresses their opinions. It is not necessary to point fingers and say I'm right, you're not being logical etc., it is simply uneccessary.
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What are you talking about? I have barely evre talked you. The only time was that one time about naohs ark and that was because all you teenagers decided to jump on my not offensive answer and say "no, no, no it happened!"
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@TrustyLepp, that was a very offensive comment you made about Christianity, I respect Christianity, just as much as every other point of view, but this is precisely what I mean. Most other Atheists also have acceptance of other belief systems, the Christianity bashing you just did was purely a personal opinion of your own, and it not truly indicative of Atheists as a whole. Shame.
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My comment begginning with "Please refer me to......" was aimed at cupcakes, I should have written that, my bad.
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Trusty- that statement above gets you zero respect. claiming that Christianity deserves no respect, is really as low as you could go. I could say the same for atheism, but I won't, because first of all, it's not true, and second I want to actually be... what's the word.. Nice. try it sometime.
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and atheists do indeed bash others religions! you're one of them!
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uh, Estelle- I AM the one who is trying to bring the peace between religions... you're confused on that..
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Not all atheists do though devilcupcakes, which was my core argument. I never criticize other religions, the only thing that ticks me off is when other people do, because religious beliefs are off limits to criticize, in my opinion.
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I wasn't criticizing anyone on their religion. i was criticizinf that a lot of atheists mock christians simply because of their beliefs. i havent seen as many christians do the same to atheists. I have the same morals as you stated.
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I have 0 respect for christianity. I don't respect Islam very much either but I don't bash Islam all the time because nearly all Muslims I have met here in America are nice. I have respect for other religions so please don't think I feel the same about all other religions as I do with christianity. Everything that I listed in my answer are things that have actually happened and still happen and are all reasons why I have absolutely no respect for christianity. Believe it or not, I have had christian friends in the past. I don't say all christians are ignorant and gullible because that's not true. However, some are and that is a fact. It's sounds mean but I dont care because it's just the truth. I'd rather be given an answer with honesty than have everything sugar coated.
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you still are extremely hateful and arrogant and you have no excuse for that kind of behavior towards Christians and others.
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I respectfully disagree. Read back through my comments if you wish, I have never once offended a religion. I am merely getting frustrated that you and TrustyLepp both feel the need to continue to degrade each others beliefs. You keep saying that atheists offend Christianity, while TrustyLepp keeps implying that Christians are blind to logic and facts, and no matter what either of you are saying about it, you continue to come out with offensive comments towards each others belief system. @devilcupcakes, I understand that you have frustrations at non religious people, and they can be insensitive and rude, such as @TrustyLepp is. @TrustyLepp, it can be frustrating when religious people try to make us believe their religion, but undermining their intelligence is very disrespectful. Stop offending eachother, get over it. You both have opposing views. Accept it. Wherever you go, there is going to be someone who has different beleifs. If you feel like having an hourlong discussion with each one, go for it. Otherwise, let them be. It is what it is. Live and let live. Treat others as you want to be treated. The negativity is a waste of time.
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I said MOST atheists. Read clearly. And you've already said that you have never heard of the things in my answer happening. You really need to do some studying on of your own religion. And I actually am nice if you talk to me about other things or saw me in person. You just can't handle being told when you're wrong or when anyone criticizes christianity. Whenever anyone says something about the bible or christianity is wrong, you immediately get all defensive and are biased to your religion. I've noticed that it is almost always just the teenage christians that think I'm "mean".
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Ok but they take offense to early everything that implies that the bible is wrong or anything in the bible that been proven wrong. Then they say "why do you have bash what I believe"? Sorry, but if anyone thinks that humans could once live past 900 years then they obviously have some sort of intellectual issue. Things like this are not a matter of belief but of facts and they just don't like it. I actually don't have many of these long discussions. Only with people such as devilscupcake.
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I read clearly, but "most" atheists don't believe this. Some, yes, but not most. And please refer me to exactly what it was I said about not hearing of what you said hannening. I'm not talking to you about other topics at the moment, so I don't care whether your a nice person 'other than this' or not. It doesn't affect me, go ahead and criticize Christians until you're blue in the face, all i'm saying is that it is offensive, and a misrepresentation of many atheists beliefs. Im not Christian, so you can't say im getting "all defensive and are biased to my religion". I'm Atheist. I just don't like how you are portraying our beliefs as a whole- by offending other religions INCLUDING Chirisitianity. Now you're going and saying that people of faith must have intellectual issues!! Will this ever end?! Things like this 900 yr things are EXACTLY a matter of belief. WE believe it is impossible for a human to survive that long, but somebody out there believes it, and you've just gone and offended another religion by saying those who chose to believe it have and intellectual issue. This is the longest religious discussion I have had also, and it also managed to make the the angriest.
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Well nearly everything I said was aimed at devils but I never claim to speak for all atheists. I don't know why anyone would just assume that all atheists are the same based on only ask.com. Yea if an adult or a teenager seriously believes that people can live past 900 years then they definitely have some learning to do. If someone gets offended by someone truthfully saying that belief in 900 year old humans is ridiculous and false then so be it. Some will be offended and some won't. I don't care at all if anyone bashes atheism. Usually it's because their facts are wrong.
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You brought nothing further into this comment than you did your last comment to which I replied, just reiterated...
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And I didn't say all people of faith have intellectual issues. Some definitely do but there are some very smart christians. It's strange how they can be so smart and logical most of the time but they have this little part of their brain that is reserved for things like 900 year old men. I have already acknowledged that not all christians are the same. I respect them but they're going to talk to me about things like that them I am just going to tell them the truth. Atheism will always have a stereotype of being bad or evil. It's not going to change even if every atheist is really nice person.
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When I said "getting all defensive", that wasn't towards you.
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Ok, I feel I've expressed basically all I will on this topic now.
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We don't "believe" that humans can't live past 900 years. We know for a fact this is impossible. No matter what, someone will be offended with whatever answer anyone gives. Is everyone just supposed not say anything.?
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Yeah, basically. If for some reason or other they think some lucky or special person back then was given the right to live 900 yrs, it is a belief that they hold. I know its unlikley, but nonetheless, it may still be what someone truly believes. Like with the 10 Commandments, and the "virgin' mother, people CHOOSE to believe that they talked to God, and Angels. They can't prove it, we can't prove it, just live, and let them live. Noahs Ark and this 900 yr thing are more difficult to believe for us ofcourse, but they can't make us believe its true. Exactly like we can't make them believe its false.
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And that is why I don't jump on every answer that I think is ridiculous. It's just their belief and I don't care what they believe. But when someone clearly doesn't know what they are talking about then, if I can, I will explain to them what us actually correct. I don't just go and immediately call them ignorant or stupid. But when I am pounce on by teenagers such as devilscupcake who tell me that I don't know what I'm talking about when definitely know more about the bible and history of Christianity then that also annoys me.
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Ex. If someone said they believed in 900 year old men, I wouldn't care
But if they say it's a FACT that 900 year old men existed then I will correct them.
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I see what you mean, but to me, for example, I consider your answers as somewhat ridiculous also, as you don't seem to want to accept the fact that they may genuinely believe it, which makes it true for THEM, which is why they are equally passionate as us they they are right. In my opinion, saying "when someone clearly doesn't know when they are talking about, if you can, you will explain to them what is actually correct" is a quick and blatant dismissal of anything that doesn't coincide with your personal opinions. This is the sort of thing i've been trying to get across this whole time. It's not your place to tell them whether a 900yr old man is fact or fiction, they have the right to believe it if they want to. You have the right not to believe, they have the right to believe it if they feel like believing it.
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I agree with you that it wouldn't be right if just went around throwing my opinion in everyone's face. That's why I only comment if I know about the subject and if I can back it up with proven facts. From my perspective, beliefs do not matter if the contrary has been proven. If someone says something is a fact when it's actually not, then I'll just tell them why they're wrong and if they still just ignore proven facts for the sake of their beliefs then whatever. At least they'll know a little about what I and maybe have said to them. But when doing this they usually just get all defensive and think I'm trying to attack them and the insults and etc. The only other comments I write are when someone says something ridiculous like "no one can be moral or have a fulfilling life without god" or "god created Adam and eve not Adam and Steve".
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Yeah, I agree with your first sentence + how it is easy to get all defensive straight up. As for the rest, I still am not convinced it is ethical. I think an objective mindset is the easiest way to approach topics such as these, where people of different faiths are involved.
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What do you mean objective mindset?
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"I agree with you that it wouldn't be right if just went around throwing my opinion in everyone's face"
trusty - you've been doing that since the very first time I've seen you.
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Striving to not side with any 'sides'. In the specific case of this topic, I mean by respecting everyone's opinions without trying to prove one or the other. Granted, I am trying to endorse my perspective also, but my belief is: Believe whatever you feel like, because you are allowed to, but don't criticize any religions, or the people who choose to follow them. This view also encompasses not trying to impose your personal beliefs on anyone else- like trying to convert them to your beliefs, because they have the right to free thought. Accept them, tolerate them, don't offend them and be grateful if they treat you with the same respect.
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That sounds good. I would probably follow that exactly if both sides would but that will never happen. I'm not trying to impose or de-christianize anyone. But I cannot just ignore all the horrible things about christianity or the many other issues. This is really long so I'm gonna go now. Have a great day!
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There are other people out there that believe that ^^^ .Have a good day aswell.
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Full marks, Trusty. I wouldn't have had the patience.
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Now where is the fun in that?..,

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All the above answers are awesome. The thing is some of us believe that there's only one truth and that's what I believe in. Now that's when we get loud and pushy. I have to admit that I have received random calls and my door were knocked on at like 8 am on a Saturday by people who tried to sell me their belief system. Now that I find loud, pushy and aggressive.
But I guess there are people like that following every different belief system out there.
At the end of the day, it's not really that hard. A lot of us are doing it. Believe what you have to believe and let others believe their own.

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It means atheist are well prepared and you being a believer you just don't know how to defend yourself. It is because of lack of knowledge of our own religion, but we are not an expert so ask them to contact some person who is an expert in that field they and they only satisfy them.

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that's. really. offensive.
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I don't "lack" knowledge, you have no right to say I am stupid.
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Saying you lack knowledge does not mean "stupid". The word ignorant does not mean stupid.
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they might as well call me stupid, anyone would be offended either way.
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I am sorry if it hurt your feelings. Any way YOU here means a generalized term and those who believe in God lacks in the in-depth knowledge of their religion. We are part time believer of God. We don't take our religion seriously. If we take it seriously the crime chart will not bounce so high.
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Thanks thetrustylepp. actually you understood the abstract of what exactly I mean.
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Then that is your issue. If you can't handle being told you don't know much about a certain subject when you don't know much about the subject then don't even bother starting a discussion about it.
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No problem aija. Thought I should reveal the mysterious definition of the word "ignorant".
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you misunderstood my intention of this question. I didn't ask to be bullied.
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Correcting your mistakes is not bullying. Why don't you get that. You were offended even by this guy who said nothing offensive. You are just too sensative or way too fast to get on the defense.
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I find it amusing and offensive at the same time that you complain of being bullied on a question where you insulted all atheists.
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atheists like you are the ones doing the insulting. I only pointed out a fact.
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So do we. You just don't like them. It's cute that when you do it it's "pointing out facts" but when anyone else does it it's insulting. I don't think you could be more of a hypocrite if you tried, dear.

Your whole question was biased, insulting, and quite frankly the opposite of reality.
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How would you react to a 20 year old man that still believed in Santa Claus? Would you respect his choice and leave him be, or would you point out the error in his judgement? What if he and others like him wanted the story of Santa to be taught in schools? What if he wanted to force everyone to live by a certain code of conduct and morals based around Santa? If you can be empathetic while reading this answer then you may understand why some see the faithful as, well...... childish.

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Cupcake, when was last time a team of atheists came to your door uninvited & tried to convert you to atheism? When was the last time an atheist told you that you were going to burn in hell for all eternity? I seriously doubt you will meet many atheists who are even interested to the subject unless you bring it up first. If you are experiencing difficulties in this regard, could it be that you are seeking validation for your beliefs from the wrong sources?

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Perhaps because so many religious people are out trying to convert people left and right, claiming anyone who doesn't follow their beliefs is immoral, and pushing their beliefs into our laws, school, and government. Religious differences cause vast amounts of war and violence. And in America it's not atheists pushing beliefs at everyone and hating those different- according to recent research we are the most hated and mistrusted minority in the US thanks to the intolerance of the Christian majority.
Atheists aren't trying to deconvert anyone. We just want believers to keep their religion to themselves. You must be suffering from severe confirmation bias to think it's atheists and not religious people causing these problems.

Or do you, like so many, think it's fine for the religious to attempt to convert others but no one else.

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Well said, as always, Ms Kitten.
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This was the appropriate response. Well stated, indeed.
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Wings flaps for ya!
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Thank you. As someone who has had to resort to legal action for religious harassment, the whining of the majority irritates me.
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Understood Skepti
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Beautiful answer kitten
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The only reason Christians try to reach you is because they have something so wonderful they just want to share. It's not to be mean or vicious, they just care.
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When someone is not interested, it is an intrusion....
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...an atheist is not interested
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Been there, done that. Was a Christian for many years- there is nothing wonderful there.

And perhaps we just want to share the wonders of reality with you. But somehow Christians consider pushing their beliefs on us unasked "helping" and us simply stating what we think "insulting". The hypocrisy is a bit nauseating.
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Oh, and not mean or vicious? Don't make me laugh. Every day we hear nonsense about how we're immoral or evil for not believing.
Recent research has shown that the a enrage Americans think RAPISTS are more trustworthy than atheists. So spare me the "love" line- we've all experienced too much hate at the hands of believers to buy it.
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I travel a lot for work and find it strange how the laws are around the country. Down in the south you run into dry counties, why? Because the Christians want it that way. I've seen what are called "blue laws" that limit what can be bought and what time of the day they can be bought especially on Sundays, why? Because Christians want you in church instead of the stores. So tell me, who's shoving their ideals and beliefs at people? The Christians. What should it matter to someone else if I want a beer on Sunday, or if I want to buy a shirt on a Sunday morning? Trust me it's not atheists spewing their beliefs, it's Christians.

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Spot on, Seedy.
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Ditto!
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Kwojcik and Kitten make very good points. You may find this hard to believe but I almost never talk about religion or atheism or my personal philosophy unless somebody brings it up first.

Then when I log onto Ask there are all manner of non-questions that are really only thinly veiled attempts to push the questioner's own beliefs.

I understand that, if you belong to an evangelical denomination, you've been told to "go out onto the highways and the by-ways and compel us to come in", but you have to realise that most of us don't want to come in. What seems like a mission of mercy to you feels like silly intrusion to us.

Don't think for a moment that because we are non-religious, or anti-religious, that we don't know our Bibles. I quoted Luke's Gospel in that last paragraph ... did you even notice?

We have found a better lifestyle than sucking up to a Celestial Bogeyman in case he's having a bad hair day when we arrive at the Great White Throne.

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As usual Dozy, bravo.
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Thanks Dozy. I thinks its true to say that Christians are a lot more interested in atheists, than atheists are in them. I'm sorry if it hurts their feelings, but a lack of interest does not constitute an attack.
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Cheers, folks. I'm afraid that Ask brings out the worst in me. I promise myself not to answer any more religious questions but so many of them are so inane that they really HAVE to be challenged lest somebody thinks that a non-challenge gives them validity.
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Exactly.
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AGAIN, you misunderstood my intention...
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You seem to be claiming, right across the board, to being misunderstood.

Sorry, Cupcake, but if it's big and grey, has a trunk and tusks at one end and a tail at the other, it's an elephant. You can call it a squirrel if you choose, but the rest of us will see an elephant.

If you want to bang on about your religion you can call it a plea for understanding, but the rest of us will see it as beating the drum.
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Everyone who has strong beliefs, holds them strongly because they not only believe they are the best for them, but for everybody else, whether they are or not. They are speaking for themselves. Decide what you strongly believe.......and speak for yourself. You may be right or wrong, but you must have the freedom to discover that.

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Religion makes people do really stupid things, like blowing themselves up, like mutilating their children's genitals, like rejecting science, like giving their money away to convicted con artists.

Religion is whole bunch of bad ideas strung together, and the only way we can hold these bad ideas in our heads, is to teach our children not to be able to filter out bad ideas. And instead of teaching them how to think, teaching them what to think and not questioning it.

The good news is that religious people are already atheist about 99.99% of the religions in the world, they know they are wrong. They just don't know the one they believe in is also wrong... yet.

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false.
no religion is "wrong" as you say.
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Christianity teaches all other religions are wrong. So you don't know your own religion?
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That is too bad that you get offended by every atheist you meet. In the real world, atheist are a VAST minority.
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I am the only atheist I have ever met in my everyday life ...... I am 48 years-old. I am surrounded by christians. They all think it is "sad" that I have not found god or jesus.
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That is great that your religion works for you. To each his own.
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However, the christian faith says you need to bring in the flock. That puts people of your faith in a bad position because NO OTHER FAITH tells their believers/followers to do so. If someone is interested in your faith, let them come to you and ask....do not be so eager to try to convert. I am not attacking you personally, I am just stating that christians in general are told to convert.
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In my experience, christians are the only ones who see a person with no faith as lacking. No other faith makes these assumptions about an atheist...in the real world or anywhere I have been on line. (more in comment section....)

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Atheists have been waiting for people to realize that they have no NEED for a faith. They are not lacking in anything and are fulfilled by other experiences in life. Most atheist (I have met many outside of my everyday life) are very respectful until being told they need to be saved or that they are lacking something in their lives.
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Cupcakes...try to be a bit more open minded. Maybe the atheists you have met have been told soooo many times that they are lacking that when you bring up religion it is just the last straw for them. Try seeing things from their perspective.
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Nicely put, Yosey.
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absolutely none of you people understand what my intention is...
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Well Devilcupcakes, we answered to the question you posted. Maybe you need to rewrite your question to show us what your intentions are. You are a christian....your faith makes up over 85% of our country and has infiltrated our schools, politics, laws, etc. yet you cry foul when a vast minority (an atheist) says something about it? That doesn't make any sense.
No one can understand what an intention is. We can only read what you posted. I have been very patient with you. Maybe some others have not, but you have no reason to be upset with I wrote.

All you have to do is look at the religious threads on this site and you will see that it is christians (not all christians) that are promoting the hate and anger. If you do not think as they do, you are lacking, evil, hateful, sinful, need to find god, just need to look at the bible, and on and on and on....No other religion does this. Not Buddhists, Muslim, Hindu, Taoist, etc. Do you really want a discussion on religion or do you just want people to tell you what you want to hear? Wouldn't it be pretty boring if everyone agreed on everything? There would be nothing to discuss.
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As a non-religious person,I'm classified as an atheist because I simply don't practice religion of any type. I find religion flawed and childish. Thats it. Those who find comfort in worship of a god should do so and be left alone about it, just as those who abstain from religion as I do. Unfortunately, the zealots who believe they 'spread the news' of their faith, are instead imposing their views on the unwilling, often with epic condescension in tow. This brings about pointed discussion, or frequently, offended reactions on deep held values. History proves which side is which.

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NIcely put
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Yesterday Skeptikitten raised the point that atheism was a KTD. That is, a knowledge=transmitted disease. :)
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She's a bright one, that skeptikitten.
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You clearly have no clue about the persecution of atheist and are perpetuating it your self. Your being a rabble rouser and a hate monger. You play innocent while you entire question is just an accusation and persecution of an entire culture.
You obviously have not noticed the harm your religion does- and it's a lot. Atheist have to be loud and in my experience its Christian's who cast the first stone - just like this question. You want to know why we say its nonsense? Because at every turn some faith is trying to shove some religious crap in our face and assert its the truth with no evidence. If this is your experience- refrain from shoving your religion in the faces of atheist and you will not receive the same rudeness you almost certainly had put forth first. I'm a peace maker with people and it seems to me your the only one judging by religious or no religious affiliation.

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again, another person who really misunderstood my intention of this question.
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She's just another overly sensitive Christian that takes offense at anyone who justly contradicts her and then hates being called out on the way she's acting. Another christian acting like christians (the very large majority) is just so hated and persecuted by the tiny portion of atheists in our country. Clearly is just ignoring all the things and hatred that atheists have to deal with because of christians. I once was not allowed to buy water at a liquor store because the cashier overheard me say to a friend that I don't believe in god. He refused to sell to me and then told me to never come back. I understood why he was being such an asshole once I saw the cross next to the register. Directing this question towards atheists clearing shows her bias for her religion and she clearly needs to brush up on her history of the destrction caused by the wonderful chrisitans throughout history.
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ya, its ironic christains play the card we deserve.
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you're saying I have a bias towards atheists while you proudly claim your hatred towards Christians. hypocritical don't you think?
and if I'm so much more "oversensitive" than you, then why did you and so many others answer this question so sensitively?
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Actually I never said I hated Christians. You near to work on your comprehensive reading skills.
I answer sensitively because you attacked an entire race with your broad sweeping hate brush.
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I wasn't talking to you
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Well this is my answer and you mentioned answer
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some people think another persons belief is dumb

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There is no need to get upset or offended. We all are entitled to our own opinion and we have to each respect that - however, Almighty God will in the end prove his existence. God does not force himself on anyone. I understand your concern - but you also have to consider the source - if a person does not believe in God and is adamant about it - and truly do not want to research any information in respect to God existence - let them be - in time we will all realize who is in charge. (Psalms 83:18)

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There are radical people out there, sadly.

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While it is true that some atheists and agnostics can be loud and offensive the same can be said of some who profess to be Christian. I find comfort in the scripture at Ephesians 4:4-6. I believe that in the near future there will be only one way of worship and belief that God accepts and allows on his Earth.

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