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What do girls like better looks or personality?

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Phlorence_602

Both..the looks catches them to go for their personality. (at least me)

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So what your saying is before a girl gets to know you you have to look good enough?
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Not neccessarily that. But as rossie said, the looks help
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looks are the very first impression. it may be shallow but its how everyone is.
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Exactly.
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I like personality, but looks help.

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Ok thanks for the help
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your welcome ;)
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personalityyyyyy.........................

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My wife didn't marry me for my looks, that's for sure.

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Both. But mostly personality.

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As for me,I go for personality and sometimes..looks too. <3

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I think both. Personality come from your looks. Your looks come from your personality. :)

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personality

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personality! if you cant get along with someone what do looks matter

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Personality has to contribute to his looks. If he is good looking he must prove he is kind-hearted and gentle.

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You "fall in love" once you get to know a guy but looks don't hurt.

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Personality. I might notice you for your looks but I'll like you for your personality.

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Honesty it depends on the age. I know younger girls alot of times go for the "looks" first (face it we all have done it) but as we get older and wiser, we find that often times when we settle for that pretty/handsome face, they are a real jerk in every other aspect. Nope. I have been there, done that, and regretted it. I am not saying all handsome/pretty people are jerks, what I am saying is make sure the insides are as nice as the outside.

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I need to be attracted physically to catch my attention but personality is what will keep my interest.

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Girls all like big....ah, big....really big....personalities. Yeah. Personalities.

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yeah... as big as the titanic....
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Depends on the girl. I love personality.. Looks don't mean anything to me.

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The girls I've tried to talk to just go for looks, so that's why they don't like me I guess

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being sweet and funny makes guys extra hot

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Boys love with eyes. Girls love with ears. So personality is more important. If you have to say something important...

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one thing you need to keep in mind!! looks will fade but your personality will last forever.... be your self if a girl doesnt like you because of what you look like then she really has a problem with her self and she needs to move on because you will be better off with out her. good luck dude... and keep you head up the right one will come along and she will like you in looks and personality.

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Mostly your personality, but your looks are just bonus points!

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I like personality. Looks are just a plus. :) Once you fall in love with someones personality, everything else about them you learn to love, too. :) Cheesy, huh? But, it's how i feel right now. :)

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Oh ho... Do we have another love bird like myself? Or am I just looking too deep?
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Oh, yes, yes we do. haha.
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My answer is both but if I had to choose, I would pick personality.

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That1BadNovelist

Both (?)

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Personality but look are definitely a plus.

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Both..... But personality outshines looks more.....

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i think any girl who i good for you is going to be more worried about personality than looks, but how you portray that personality matters.

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personality, but looks help a LOT. you dont want her to say i love you but never want to have sex with you

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Ummm... Nasty
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No, it's not.
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The personality but it depends on the girl

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Personality. It really depends on charisma and what kind of vibe you put out. If you are ugly, act mysterious. It gets em every time!

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I personally don't always care for looks, if I like their personality enough, I convince myself they're cute without trying. It's a comfort thing for me. But yes, looks will make a good impression, but you should still portray your personality. If your happy and full of joy, maybe the fact that you smile a lot would favor you in not so much as looks, but that you are a genuinely nice looking guy...

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I think what happens is a girl that likes a guy's looks might try to make conversation with him and then she would probably end up getting to know him better and see that he is cute and has an awesome personality then there's the guy with the awesome personality that she'll fall in love with basically what i'm saying is every girl and guy is different there will be guys who i think are cute for looks there will be guys for both and then there's personality .personally i really like funny and nice guys and if they are cute it's a bonus

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Personality

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choice is not same to all, how ever the level of connectivity matters.

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I like guys that have good looks but that also draws me to their personality. So both.

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both :D

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in my opinion personality

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Personality! looks are always great, but a girl will fall in love with your personality, not your looks !

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Personality :)

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Persoality. Looks don't hurt, either. But a woman or girl is much more likely to stay with an ugly guy with a great personality than with a gorgeous guy who's nasty and has a horrible personality.

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I go for personality but being a girl and talking to other girls. I know a lot more girls that would go for looks before personality.

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both XD

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depending on the girl i guess, personally i go for personality because its not about whats on the outside its about whats on the inside, but some girls prefer looks... as u can see a lot of people think both so im gonna go for both...

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Looks don't last forever, personality does.

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Looks catch their eye but if they don't have a good personality then your looks don't matter personality is definitely more important

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Personality!!! I like the sweeties

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If a girl is not attracted to you at all then she probably will never date you, but for me anyways, if there is a guy who is really attractive but is a jerk it makes him look less attractive...its weird i saw this guy that i didnt think was very cute then i noticed how caring and funny he was and i began to be attracted to him!
so overall they both matter!

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Depends on the guy. Sometimes looks and sometimes personality

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initially a person is attracted to someone's physical appearance, but ultimately a persons personality is what keep them tuned in.

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For most girls, your looks have to be on point before anything, then it's your personality (as long as you don't lie or cheat, and you know how to be romantic and have a good laugh, for them its good enough) but for me, personally, and a few others, it;s not so much the looks because if you don't look that nice i will still give you a chance but i wont let it interfere in the relationship you have with me, then it's personality which has to be stubborn and sexist free!

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Well I Disagree With Anyone Who Said Look's Because If They're Interested In Look's Then Trust Me They Just Like You For Who You're Not.Personality Is What Really Matter's Because You Get To Know That Person Better And Know They're Traits.What They Like And What They Don't.Honestly I Think Look's Are For People Who Are Desperate.

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I first notice looks, but I really don't get interested in someone until I've got to know their personality and what they're like (:

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I would only notice a boys kind personality after I notice if they're good looking so I really can't choose but personalities REALLY draw me to a boy as well nobody's gonna like you if you're mean and unthoughtful. But I would date at an ugly boy if he's really kind and reliable that's mainly what I look for in guys.

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Personality

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Well, most girls i know, the guy has to be hot, but also if he is a complete jerk then they would say no way. Me? I don't want the guy to be super ugly or whatever, looks don't matter that much, but the guy has to have a great personality. I like a guy that can make me fell like a princess and know that he loves me and actually wants to be with ME. Hope this was helpful!

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Looks do catch a girl's eye, but if you're a jerk then there won't be a relationship anytime soon. What girls really looks for is a guy that makes her laugh, they want to smile but usually need a little help. As long as you're good at heart and have a good sense of humor you can't go wrong.

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personality But looks can be apart of it

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Looks at first then the personality

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looks bring them in then personality makes them stay :)

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Most people said the personality is more important than appearance ,but boys always care about the girl"s appearance. the personality will make a girl be chaemed !

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The boy I like I didn't start to like until I got to know him better, then I started to like him. So personality. Appearance really shouldn't matter if your personality is good!

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I like looks better, but I'm still pretty nice and stuff.

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Personality<3<3<3<3 :D

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looks for bed time, personallity for after bed time

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you can be the hottest guy on earth but if you are a total dick then all of that atractiveness all of a sudden doesn't matter anymore!

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Personality for me if he is cute its an extra not a necessity

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in hollywood there is a lot of ugly guys having nice looking woman , so really, personality , but it also depends on the girl , because some girls in my art class they are cuucuu because every time they see a "hotty" they be all like " awww and uuuu " and stuff , so take those things in mind

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Its always Good Personality a girl would like. But the definition of Good Personallity varies from girl to girl. Good Personality doesn’t always mean a muscular body or expensive clothes or hi-fi brands. A good personality can be attained by looking simple also which means decently dressed (way of carrying whatever you wear), polite yet humorous behavior, smile and many more things which add a grace to your appearance.

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Both! Looks can go and fade in the blink of an eye! When you have something long lasting, like a personality, the relationship or crush tends to last longer, because that's not something you change easily. And when the person's face is simply AMAZING, that's a double bonus! XD So, in my opinion, it's best to have both. :)

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both if you are not clean and gross a girl will not like you and personalty too personality more

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Looks are the first thing a girl notices about you, but even if you aren't good looking, you can still charm them with your personality. A handsome guy you can't hold an intelligent conversation pales in comparison to a less hot, but witty guy you can joke around with :)
A little-bit of both, but the later is more important to me personally :)

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Well a guy who's really got the looks going for him catches girl's eyes but if he's a real jerk she's not gonna like him anymore so it's kinda both. If a guy's not good looking at all but super nice funny smart and athletic then it's ok...but usually someone prefers a really hot guy...with a six-pack ;)

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They should be looking for the personality, because looks are not going to treat you good/bad. the personality is how to found out if the guy is going to treat you nice or shitty.

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well when you like someones personality you start believing they are beautiful inside and out. being pretty or ugly is just based on your personality. but looks is normally what meets the eye with ppl but personality is better

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Well personality, but to get to know them, tehy have to catch your eye first ;)

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Both, but for me personality is a MILLION times more important! <3

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