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Should I forgive him?

well there was this guy that I loved and he cheated on me. I liked him and he was pretty good bf. every once In awhile he would get mad and tell me he did not Need me and stuff but whateva. he says he loves me still and i kinda like him what should I do! he is 24 and I am 17...

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You can forgive him.. But forgiving him does not mean taking him back. That I would not recommend.

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I would recommend it.
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Your recommendations mean nothing.
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They mean everything
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If everything means nothing... Sure.
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If sure nothing every means thing.
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It takes real talent to screw up a sentence so much.
You still on your brothers phone ?
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what r u talking about
'if sure nothing every means thing'
makes no sense
btw i agree with you @Sunshine_girl
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I'm just talented like that.
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So.. Respond to my comment but don't answer my actual question . Okay then.
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Yes still on his phone.
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no wonder
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And you said you ordered your phone or battery or whatever from Amazon? Usually they're faster.. Hm.. Must be the holidays... Lol
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I got it.....the phone was just garbage.
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Ah. Makes more sense.
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No

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Hummmm boys that old have more liberty to do whatever they want like cheat. My ex was 5 years older than me and did the samething they did to you

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if he cheated on you, then you shouldn't get back together with him.

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Let him go. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Your young and have your life ahead of you. There are other fish out there.

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Nope. You should learn the meaning of love. It's obvious that neither of you know what it is. He cheated....can you trust him? You can't have a meaningful relationship without trust. Not to mention...what would a 24 year old guy want with a 17 year old girl?! Somethings not right with that.

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Noooo

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adrilove

Nope! Cause what he did will always linger

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No if they cheat once they will do it again

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Ive been with my wife for almost 30 yrs NEVER cheated once. i've had plenty of opportunity. (women drop their cloths/wanna see my tatoo)....once a cheat always a cheat he'll learn not to get caught so easy.

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well u can forgive him but i wouldnt get back together with him.

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If he cheated on u he could again. You need to forgive him but think about getting back together. Is he a good guy? Will he cheat on u again? Does he really love me or is he just saying that? Totally forgive him because that's what people r supposed to do but I'm not sure I would get back together with him.

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forgive him
im sure u've been forgiven before, and it's the right thing to do
but that doesnt mean u should be with him- he might hurt you again
i wouldn't if i were u, but that depends on if he sincerely apologizes, if he's cheated on other people before, etc.

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Not to be rude or anything, but isn't he a little old for you and, I would suggest you forgiving him, but don't get back with him. He's already said so many bad things to you...

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yes...but don 't you dare take him back. you have to learn your self worth....live the song "what lola wants lola get 's " by sara vaughn and never seattle for less than everything cause you bet your worth it.

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No one can tell you what to do but people do make mistakes it depends on the person really.

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Don't forgive him.. For one he's too old for you and if he can cheat once he can cheat again!!! Just get out of it! And date someone your own age because its a wast of time daring someone who has mistreated you

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KittySusca

Try to think from the end here,that is,imagine where it COULD end up.Can you see yourself sitting in a clinic,waiting with a number on your lap for a doctor to see your baby you didnt plan on having? Where is he? Is he with you? No.He's not.He's off with the next one.Because thats what guys like this do.Now try to see the holiday season year after year with a small child and no daddy there to help him/her unwrap Christmas,or celebrate their birthday,or later on,go to accept their boyscout badges,or join the soccer team.Will this guy be there? No.He will not.Ditch it now,honey. The part where he tells you he doesnt NEED you is the key.Thats what the turkeys do.




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Not all of us do that. Otherwise, I agree with you.
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It didnt take all of you to give me 4 such children.
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Unless he is violent, if you really want to see him again, do so. BUT don't let yourself get serious or depend on his being faithful. People claim they "have changed" but they very seldom do. The traits that make us faithful or unfaithful tend to be built in. If you enjoy his company, there's no harm in that, but don't depend on it.

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Yes, you should forgive him because having an unforgiving heart only hurts one person and that is you. However, under NO circumstances should you take this guy back. Honey, treat yourself like the princess you are. You've kissed the 24 year-old frog, so now you need to give yourself time for the REAL prince to come by that will treat you as you deserve to be treated. DITCH THE TOAD!

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Forgive, but keep steppin!

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Report him. Poop on him. & do the girl

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No, there are plenty of other better guys to choose from. Always remember, people who love you will never hurt you because they love you unconditionally, whether you did something wrong or not. so clearly he doesn't deserve you. and even if you still like him, what he did shows he doesn't like you as much as you like him. it would be really unhealthy and risky to get bad together, honestly.

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No...... He cheated on u.... How do u know that u can trust him again?!?!?

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He cheated you if you forgive him he probably cheat you again , but do as your heart says to do , you know best. Good Luck

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Do not forgive him!
If someone loves you he won't cheat on you! If he cheats, he is NOT a good boyfriend.
There are so many nice guys out there, you can find someone who will love only you 'cause you deserve that ;)

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