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please help! I'm pretty shy when I fist meet people, but after about 20 minutes I am outgoing.

I want more guy friends. I have a couple but I want more. the thing is that in order for me to talk to a guy is he has to initiate the conversation, also I am not the person to approach someone either. how do I become a little bit more out going. and there are a lot of really cool lax guys at my school and I'm doing lax so do you think that that will give me more attention because there is a common interest?

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Yeah, I meet people with my fists too.

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buttonz
Lol
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What?
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~read your question again~
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"when I fist meet people" XD
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Oh ha
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boondox4l

ask them about music and movies video games
what they like
us men are gullible and flirting isn't a bad thing either

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But how do I get them to initiate that conversation?
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you can't unless you give them an incentive like some kind of physical greeting like a wink or waving. For me this is much easier then trying to just go up to them and start talking.
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boondox4l
o idk bump into them
its hard cause they might be shy and other reasons like they might be afraid of you
some guys are afraid of pretty women and even if its just talking to them
maybe get into a group project with them or talk to them on Facebook
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My personality is just like yours. Just find a possible friend learn about what they like then build up courage and talk about their interests. If you can't build up courage then physically greet them with a wave or something.

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whenever you see a boy smile, wave and say hi to them. After a while they will start doing it to you. One day buy a new really pretty shirt that a guy will like. He will compliment it. Start complimenting him. He will start talking to you more. If you have a facebook, twitter etc. and so does he friend him and talk to him everyday.

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Just be confident

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Easier said than done.
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