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I like this boy and he has a girlfriend? What do I do?

I have like this boy for 3 years and he has a gf. He likes me though. I just don't know what to do. His gf is my BFF so I have a problem. Should I date him? I just don't want to ruin me and his gf's relashonship as friends.

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TheHarem

Questions to consider:
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1. If this guy likes you, why does he still have another girlfriend?
2. Do you think maybe he might not be honest with you?
3. If he's being honest with you, that means he's not being honest with his girlfriend, right?
3. Are you willing to destroy any and all friendship with your BFF?
4. Is this guy really worth it in the long run?
5. How will you be able to trust and believe what he tells you once you become his girlfriend?
6. Are you willing to take on the responsibility and possible rap for this couples breakup?
7. Can you be OK with loosing 2 friends if you and he were to break up?
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I would keep the friendship with the girlfriend. He doesn't sound too dependable. Just my opinion though. :)

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Oh no you can't go out with him that's your best friends boyfriend. It's OFF-LIMITS to friends, I mean that's just like the rules of feminism.

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tell him lies about his girlfriend so he gets mad at her and goes out with you

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BoxingTally

Wow, there's no way to not destroy a relationship if you make a move. That's just being realistic. Date him if you want, but that's the end of your "friendship"

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Minji

Don't date him. He has a girlfriend that happens to be your best friend and he likes you.....? If that happened between my BFF and her boyfriend he wouldn't be alive because I would have done something to him. If you date him you'll not only ruin your relationship with your BFF but what happens if you guys break up....? Think about it, don't date him he's not worth it.

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You like him but he has a girlfriend, therefore do nothing. You can't take what is not yours. You can't have something that someone else already owns.

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Leave him alone until he's single and then make sure your friend is completely over him if you value your friendship.

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If you are already sniffing around your so called BFF's boyfriend, and further even remotely contemplating 'dating' him .. then you don't have a relationship with her .. It's phoney as a 3 dollar bill. "Friends" don't do something that diabolical.

AND .. If HE is also contemplating cheating on her .. He's not worth having.

OR .. maybe you both deserve each other .. But either way, it's the girl in the middle who ultimately gets hurt.

Who does that?

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Leave them alone.

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Try impressing him

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kazarina

What rule allows you to destroy others relationships for your own benefit. How can you say your best friend is your best friend. To even think of being disloyal to her makes me want to shake some morality in to you. As for her boyfriend he's a slime bucket encouraging you. You expect men to be fickle but never your beast friend. I hope she wakes up to the both of you & dumps you both. Just remember if he will do it to another girl to get you then someday in the near future he would do the same to you with someone else & then Karma will be working as it should.

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