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im 13 and i really like this girl but when i try to talk to her my brain goes all stupid and i end up embarrassing myself can someone help me???

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just be yourself. talk to her like she is a Good friend. just think about what you say before you go talk to her.

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i try to think it through but once i start talking i just forget and thats when i start embarrassing myself...
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well, heres what you do when that happens: just make a Little joke like "uh i Cant talk today". and make sure that you dont show that you are embarrassed.
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Well look for any possible signs that she like you too. If you see them, open up to her. If you don't see them, she'll probably turn you down.

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You can compose yourself before talking to her. Alternatively, you can find ways of communicating to her without embarrassing yourself. Try phone calls and messages before finding a proper way of talking to her in person.

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Always be yourself. Don't change yourself for anyone. Find common interests and talk about things you both like. Yes, it may be awkward talking to her and you might embarrass yourself but you have to get to know her. When your talking to her, don't think about trying to impress her. Just go with it. The more you think, the more you freak out and do something to embarrass yourself. And don't worry, most girls find it cute when a guy gets nervous. Hope this helped.

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I tend to make up then conversation in my head before talking to someone I like. However when I do this I tend to be bias and steer the conversation through them, to what I want. :)
I also do this, when I talk to them I try and forget that I like them and remember to cherish the moments I had with them later.

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Aren't you to young for this nonsense...go play some video games...

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