my partner and i are getting married, I'm thinking of wearing white(I'm the "girl" in the relationship) opinions?
I don't see an issue with just you wearing white, just your partner, both of you, or neither one of you. It is your wedding, so do whatever you feel like doing to make the day special.
You could just wear a nice white shirt and some pants...
in china white is the color of mourning
Good for you, wear white!
Black dress pants with a white shirt a colored tie would be very nice although an all white tux could be too if you want to go for the full white effect :)
Both wear white.