My wifes friend has been saying he loves her and calling her babe and i know she does it back but she says its a friend thing what do i do?
my wife has been friends with this guy who lives in another city about 7 hours away and they have been friend longer than we have been married. before i met her, my wife and her friend usto have a thing together. Her friend always texts her and I'm fine with that but the guy knows were married and respects that but he still tells her he loves her and calls her babe and writes songs for her, its like he thinks there dating. My wife goes along with it and tells him she loves him back and calls her babe. She cant trust me with her phone because of the text to him so idk what else is going on but when i asked her for her phone today to download the new firmware she didnt trust me... until she deleted all of her texts and then she gave the phone to me. i called her out on it and she said i only did it because i dont want you to get mad at me because we tell eachother we love eachother and call eachother babe and all that lovey dovey crap. i just dont know how to deal with it please someone have a heart and help me out there ive been feeling very emotional lately about it. i told her im happy she told me the truth although i already knew about it. i dont know what to do :,(