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Someone just ruined my day, what should i do to make it better?

The person is really close to me..but said something really painful to me...
what do you suggest I do. Thanks.

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Ok,I'm sorry. I was wrong.

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aww.
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Awww
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Phlorence_602
Apology NOT accepted .
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Good because I didn't do anything.....that's what I get for apologizing for someone else. lol
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You and Gators? Hmm.
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Most interesting. ;)
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aww. You two are making me cry. This was the most beautiful apology not accepted ever. lol
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buttonz
Why did you apologize if you did nothing
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Phlorence_602
Haha
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I thought it was pretty good lol
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Okay... That was great mikelc...
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Lol !!!!!
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So... What's the problem here..!
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Phlorence_602
Lol what?
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buttonz
Im confused. Again.... As always
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I mean... Who ruined your day... What was the problem...
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Please tell us Phlorence, who is it that ha upset you?
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Phlorence_602
I´d rather not talk about it, Thanks.
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It's her boyfriend Jose.
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It's gators. I'll get though her...
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Phlorence_602
Gator, shut it!! ...It´s Manuel btw
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Boyfriend? Wow. Mission impossible it is.
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I'm not that good at relationships... Not a love doctor.
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Hit me with the info gators.
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I don't have any.....but I can make something up if you want.
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*sigh* how were you even involved in this...
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...gators....
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O wasn't
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*I wasn't
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Wish i had a bf
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No
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yes
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Yes what?? I meant do not make up anything.
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Nice going.
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Why not? You never know,you might like my story.
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Lol! Let's hear it then!
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Phlorence_602
I don´t wanna know.
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Looooooooooooong conversation
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Story time?
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yes
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No
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Apparently not,Phlorence has to ruin all the fun.
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well its ok, it her question anyways
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Phlorence_602
Yes!!!!!
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buttonz
Ive been here watching the whole time. Bye bye back to creepin
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killjoy
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killjoy was here !
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I´m glad.
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I agree with ededdneddy. is your choice to tell us or not phlorence. When I got dumped I downloaded a ton of break up songs, for you I would recomend kelly clarkson's....the one that says the bed is warmer now that he is gone. Try to listen to break up songs that remind you of all the things that you didn't like about him (I'm sure there were some, you just don't remember right now). Then go out and have fun with friends. Be glad you don't have to deal with fights and that you are not tied to anyone else. Hey, being single is not such a bad thing (don't let my girlfriend hear me say that. lol)
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what was said?
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i have no clue
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Who did it!!!??? Let me at 'em Phlorence!

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haha Lol.candy!!!
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It was.... CANDYBAR?!?!?!?!
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eat him
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A similar thing happened to me, and for two days, i was a trainwreck, mad and sad. But I realized that self pity gets you nowhere and have resolved to simply keep myself busy, with expanding the frontiers of my talents and knowledge. I have recently learnt how to play trumpet (i already played two other brass instruments) and am now learning guitar and German. Keep yourself busy with expanding your horizons.

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Was it me! Im sorry i'm just crazy like that. Didn't know my crush would make you so upset.

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Lol..NOT YOU SILLY!!!
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1watch a funny movie

2or do something you've always wanted to do but never got a chance to

3listen to great music

4tell that person off and how u feel

5and break stuff (this one releases stress)

me and NAFTA will make you laugh if u want?

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Thanks
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no problem
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breath in and breath out thrice.....and go and flush the toilet ...think that you have flushed him down for good.....

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haha
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No matter how much you care about someone, doesn't mean they're always right. They're probably wrong about you!

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Thanks
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You're welcome
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Not you
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I love giving good advice, or at least advice I feel is worthwhile...
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Too bad,I'm taking the thanks anyway.
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No...I forbid you
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I got it! Gators, you gotta earn your own
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Don't let it bother you. If that person is really close to you, I'm sure you two will patch things up. For right now, just remember that most things can be fixed and that when it comes to family and good friends a good talk, and a forgiving mind goes a long way.

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Sorry to hear that Pholerance..Maybe this person doesn't mean what he/she said..sometimes we say things we don't mean when we are stressed or angry.
If that person really close to you and you really care about..you should ask him/her why he/she said that and if you did something to them !?

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Thanks
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You are welcome Phlorence.. :)
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Well it was me im sorry, but just think about the stuff you love and want. Be yourself.

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Lol..I don´t even know you lol Thanks
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When the pain has subsided, you will be in a better place to talk with the person. If they are really close, you probably want to fix this.
And please realize, Gators was probably just joking.

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Haha...NOT gators lol
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Yeah not him.
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Teehee. Couldn't resist that last bit.
The first part is my real answer, but I thought the giggle might help.
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There are over 6 Billion people in the world and you are going to let 1 person ruin your day? Think about it...

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Wish someone makes a banner reading what you said, so that i could make it as my wallpaper! ;)
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You should t0trture them by cutting off their fingers. I just watched that in this one movie called The Final; it's a horror. Really good. Or, you could simply talk to me. Yeah, I think that would be best.

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Haha LOL
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One by one bwhahahaha
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Go out take a walk, have some fresh air, ignore him for awhile, maybe sooner or later, he or she will say sorry to you . Hope that's help :))))

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Let it go for now. Most important thing is that you do not start talking to this person whatsoever. They did te mistake so its them so start a conversation or apologize. Once they realize you dont care because you havent asked about them, they will come to you. Believe mit it always works. If they dont come back to you, you know that they arent a true friend and you dont need them.

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Mysteriously make them disappear bwhahahaha

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Lol
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Devote the rest of the day to time out for yourself.
Make no demands on yourself
Pamper yourself
Indulge.
Siesta
This person is not really close to you, would a close person do that ?
Target a person to get closer to
One thats always kind
Usually one of the quieter ones in your group.

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Who???

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Im sorry :(.... Have a cookie.. maybe that will help.

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Lol thanks
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Sorry to hear that.Perhaps you can do something fun to get your mind off that.But,I would want to talk to that person who said something really painful about you and work things out the way you want it to be and not for that person to take it as a joke.Smile Phlorence,don't let just one thing get down on you like that.You have us here.Would you like a hug? :)

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Thanks...and yes please .)
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Anytime, -cyber hugs- xD
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DrVampire

go for a walk, get some fresh air, talk to a good friend about this problem, watch a hilarious comedy, listen to what doesn't kill you by kelly Clarkson


if the person wasn't close to you I'd be ready for a big fight >:(

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haha Thanks Alex < :)
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no problem
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I'm changing from being nice...you want me to get in my new VW and give them an old fashion azz whooping....I'm ready to start the new year off... kicking some hindies.

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Oh God dustee -...hahaha
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Babygirl.... shake it off.... cry if needed and move on..... You are a Grand SUPER STAR.... peaches
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Thanks :)
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Look at the bright side...
I JUST SHOWED UP!!!! :)
What's up, Buttercup?

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Hi sunny!!!
I´d rather not talk about it. thanks :)
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Okay but... You know where to find me.

Ignoring my comment to you on the other question? :p
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No...not really....ok YES..lol
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Shall I ask again?
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I should.
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No.
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Two of my favorite beautiful young ladies...if you fight...ALWAYS make up...you two are so lovely helpful and kind to each other.... don't let ask.com make you emenies....
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Buttercup....that's sweet to Phol....
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It's a joking kind of fight, Dust :) It's okay :)

Phlobot: Answer or I'll ask again :)
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ok...because...I was sad... now I'm happy.... thanks....
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No sunny!!
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Smile Dustee :)

Was that a no to my question about Manuel proposing to you?
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Silence. :)
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Lol
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Well it is usually good to talk about it . or it's just nice to have someone around to talk to . Depending on the situation try talking to that person . Talking about it normally helps. I am really sorry Phlorence. It will all work out. I know it !

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You could have fun with them and prank call them. If they have your caller ID then ask for your mom's phone. On the other hand some people think that is 'wrong' so... yeah. Just do what you love to do all the time! It could be biking, reading, playing board games, computer time, eating, sleeping, watching TV. Just remember that life is a bummer sometimes but life can also be super fun sometimes!

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Phlorence!!!!! Don't let that meanie hurt your feelings!!!! Plus my uncle showed me some funny portuguese videos you should watch!!!! I was laughing soo hard!

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Lol thanks.
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You're welcome. If you wanna know the videos just let me know. One of them is a funny parody to Gangnam style.
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If your close to the person you should go and talk to them. Let them know that they hurt you and find out why they said it. Sometimes people say things and we take them the wrong way. Maybe it's just a misunderstanding and there's no reason to be sad. Either way get to the bottom of what's going on. I hope you feel better!!!! If not try going for a walk that always helps to clear my head.

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watch this video of me singing Cute, by Stephen Jerzak

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqoFHktQMLQ


this song always makes a girl smile

if you like my singing, subscribe and share this with your friends

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Ok...thanks
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watch nigahiga vids or smosh

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Robot-freak

take your anger out little girl.
punch him/her in the face. if you're really close he/she will forgive you for the punch later.

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Once again, I´m not a little girl.
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wtf? worst advise EVER little guy (no exclamation point needed)
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hiiiiii i missed you
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dude really
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sorry :( people can be meanies sometimes! when im down i either:
-watch a funny movie
-eat icecream(its so yummies)
-grab a warm blanket and mi teddy bear(yes i still have one)
-text other awesome people
-jam to the radio:P
-go out shopping(if you can drive of course!)
-oh! hot showers! i always ponder about life in there:P
anyways i hope your better soon! The night is darkest just before the dawn. And I promise you, the dawn is coming. -The Dark Knight (my favorite movie :D)

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Thanks this was helpful.
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Well, sometimes when you stick your feelers out there they can easily get stomped on. But that's a way of discovering things about someone. A fast and easy but often painful way.

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Items needed to feel better
1.M&M's
2.GUMMYWORMS/BEARS!!!!
3.Skittles
4.Rasberries
5.Ice Cream
6.Monty Python/Music which ever you prefer\n


yes, yes, I think that should do it!!

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Go into your basement. get on your couch. Crash. Then go tell Gators to put a sock in it.

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You too pretty and elegant phlorence to let anybody ruin your day .... Don't even give it a second thought = )

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sit at home in front of a computer asking us wait u already did that now open new tab and look up inspirational music

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Haha
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tell them that it really hurt u

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Tell them that you don't like what they did. No one deserves to have their day ruined and i sympathize for u.

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