I'm sorry but he will not change his ways I ve been there myself and I had to get out' and on with my life. He started getting abusive towards me and my young child I had to move away and start a new life three provinces over to get rid of him for good. Change my name looks everything his not worth it trust me on these one. You will find a really nice guy who will treat you right in the end I did. IF you stay you are just letting him run your life and the abusive will come it always does with this kind. Take care of number one yourself in any relationship if it's a controlling boyfriend or girlfriend. Don't give any one the right to hurt you.