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How do you tell someone your pregnant?

Im young

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Always be honest , who ever your telling is going to find out anyway , might as well tell them and get it over with .

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Well I'm glad your going to step up and keep your baby ! It's going to be tuff but you can do it , and I know your scared to tell Mom & Dad but just remember they will be there for you when no one else will , just understand they have a rite to be angry but they will get over it ! Good luck wish I could help more .
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Minji

How young?

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Not really your business.
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Actually, it's a very valid question. No one would give the same advice to a 13 year old as they would a 17 year old.
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sort of becomes our business when one asks such a question.
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Not truly.
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She should have actually given some advice along with the question. I would assume she is younger than 17 by her demeanor
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Actually its fine if I didnt want her opinion I wouldnt of ask!!!! Im just scared
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13
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Wow, okay. Yeah, look at the answer I gave you. :(
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Whoa, you're only 13...Sorry kid, but you'll have to tell your parents the truth, it will only take a little bit before they see signs of pregnancy. Good luck!
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Thankd minji
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Just tell them. There's no way to really avoid the dramatics of it. Just say, straight out: "I'm pregnant." And get an abortion... And, uh, condoms.

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Why an abortion? Did she say anything about not wanting to keep the baby?
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MBrooke15
abortion is not right though...if she was stupid enough to get pregnant, she can at least go through the pain of having the baby and saving its life
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A little late for condoms, don't you think? And, her age absolutely matters. I wouldn't give the same advice to a 13 year old, that I'd give to a 17 year old.
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Well, that's your opinion. And it's for the baby. How can a baby living with a young, uneducated, unworking, unfunded mother have a wonderful life?
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MBrooke15
its called adoption....I swear! people just dont care at all about The Word of God
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Every person deserves to be loved by their real parents. And that's your opinion. Pro-life... There's a right to abortion. It's a choice.
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MBrooke15
Yes, but its the devil's way
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If that's what you believe, then fine. I just disagree with you.
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MBrooke15
ok....u will be in hell though with the rest of the people on this site that dont believe in God.....so good luck with that....cause u need the Lord
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Not once did I say I didn't believe in God.
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MBrooke15
k....its over
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No abortion gor me damn it
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People like you anger me. Piousness is disgusting. Get over yourself and live with the idea that not everyone is exactly like you and we all have the freedom to live our own lives and have our own beliefs.
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Okay, braty, that's your decision. Just make sure you're very committed raising this child.
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just yell out I AM PREGNANT R U HAPPY OR I'M SORRY!!

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"Hey Mom and Dad....... Jimmy knocked me up and now I'm prego"

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oh my!*face palm*
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First of all, you shouldn't be getting pregnant at a young age. & Secondly, just own up to the responsibity & tell them.

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Stop making bad decisions and you won't have to

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How old are u? Im not going to judge
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Go to them privately and Just say im really sorry to your parents, and say I respect what you say and i deserve to be punished. Don't get an abortion it will come back to haunt you and when you get older and have kids you will never forgive yourself. If you must at least put the baby up for adoption

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Im keeping my baby ! No one wants to go throuhh a foster home or death!!
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If you're 16 and younger just tell you're family or mother mom I had sex and I think I'm pregnant. It's going to be very stressful and hopefully you have a supportive family. If you're 18 and older just say I'm have exciting news I'm pregnant! Make sure you get it to fit somewhere in the conversation though. If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

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13 :"(
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O how many months? :-0
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I'm 13 too. Tell your parents as soon as possible. I'm sorry that you're so young. Does anyone know you're pregnant?
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Mon, Dad help me pick a name for your grand son. Can I name him/her after you. Mom how did you raised because I want to be him/her the same way you were with me when I was your little baby girl. Put as much honey in it and you will drive them crazy. Mom will go back to the days you were an infant and grand pa will go crazy thinking about holding the baby. Make them part of your pregnancy and they will love it. Be ready for the other siblings to be jealous! Good luck.

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There will be more than just some one you'll have tell, and I'm sorry but there are no magic words or easy answers. You must be very scared, so pick an adult you can trust with your feelings and tell this person first, then she can help you deal with your situation. The words will come to you, be brave and face this head on. My thoughts are with you.

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How are you doing, braty?
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I think that would depend a lot on the relationship of the teen with her parents. Even with the most understanding of parents, there is going to be some shock involved. If you think you need one, an intermediary person may be of help (trusted teacher, pastor, family friend).
I have a little experience with this as a one-time very surprised father. All worked out OK in our case. I am not given over to hysterics.

I wish you the best of luck with all this!

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You say it. It's not like you can hide it for much longer. Btw, I'm not the person to judge but, what are you doing pregnant at 13?

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How old is the father?
And you have to tell your parents. Period.

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I'm not judging you but, I'm 13 and just got my first boyfriend 5 months ago! And your pregnant at 13? Anyway to answer this question I would say just be truthful with your parents, they will find out sooner or later. Gosh, 13. Fhew.

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Tell your parents. They will support you even though they probably won't be too happy with the news. Hang in there because it already happened. This is just one of those scary moments that you have to face. Good luck!

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I went to my parents 26 years ago and told them. I had unprotected sex and that it was my responsibility to take care of my baby. I thank God that the father supported me emotionally and financially. It was a scary time but my family supported me too. Just tell whomever it is you have to and don't wait. It's time to grow up and take responsibility for your actions.

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