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What do 14 year old girls look for in a guy?

if its a good sense of humor, then I'm GOOD. BUT WHAT ELSE DO THEY LOOK FOR

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bwhahahah ok in my personal opionion first for the guy to be nice.. we also look for a guy that talks a lot and cares for us. like really sweet. and of course a good sense of humor like you said. and that you dont make us jealous or treat us diffrently in front of your friends or anyone else. you should listen to the sappy stuff in the music we listen to... if you listen to any of "one direction" songs you'll get the idea

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yes! hahah lol youre welcome
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Erm, obviously, looks.

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soo he could be hot but treat u like crap?
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Humor, cuteness, NICENESS, not too-clingy, tall?, funny... Hmmm... That's about it I guess. Haha. I should know, I'm 14

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Nice funny doesn't care what people look like smart kinda sporty and cuteness helps

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well being one he should be able to make a move because it gets annoying if a guy is always too shy to talk to you. Be cool and sweet and just don't try to bug girls and be mean. I don't get why guys do that it just makes us dislike them. It also helps to have abs. Also, don't be too full of yourself.

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Nice tall and for me a good education

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Sweet, really funny, outgoing, cute, and flirty!(: hopes this helps!

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14 year old girls just need friends. They don't need to be in serious relationships.

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Hey! You stole my answer!
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That's like saying you don't need to buy food. It's true, but it doesn't matter.
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I usually automatically like a guy if hes funny, and not rude. And if he has good tastes in music.

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14 year olds do not need to be dating that just results in teen moms and other bad things like drugs and smoking.but if you really must know it depends on the girl.

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Since when did having teenage relationships correlate with drug usage? Also, pregnancy is caused by unprotected(key word there!) se*, not simply being in a relationship.
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nice cute funny not gay and ya haha

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I'm 14, I'll tell you what I look for. Someone who is respectful to my parents, & my friends. Someone who would call me once in a while & talk to me for hours, write me notes telling me how much they care, be honest with me, decent looking ( don't have to be hot, just try to look good & don't just wear whatever and not give a shit about what you look like ), Likes animals, can joke around calling each other names ( like stupid, ratarded, weirdo, but in a flirting way. ) Will sometimes be romantic, smart, can make me laugh, stare at me not awkwardly, when hugging, grab around the waist tightly, flirt, will take pictures even if you don't like to, funny ones to. Actually uses the internet, like facebook, tumblr, whatever. ya know, other cute stuff.

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i'm gonna be actually honest i like someone who has nice hair,(but no gel), someone who can make me laugh, love me and be my best friend at the same time is a major turn on....someone who isn't quiet..... athletic i like guys on the school teams, no video gamers please( or if you do. just dont talk about it 24/7)!!! AND THE MOST IMPORTANT THIS IS..........smiling.. I've never EVER met a guy where i don't just fall in love with his smile.. no matter how dorky it is. so smile don't hide your teeth even if u have braces some girls like braces NO JOKE!!! i think they look good on some guys, retainers too!!!

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yepp braces are cute.
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Be nice to her don't be a jerk

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well, that really narrows it down for the poor guy
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i am 14 so i would be looking for a clean-cut guy who is as following:

1. nice
2. handsome
3. good-mannered
4. humorous
5. good-kisser
6. sensitive
7. knows how to react if the girl is heart-broken
8. flirty ( remember there are boundaries)
9. romantic
10. will be able to cuddle and is VERY loveable

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1. Caring
2. Nice
3. Little bit of trouble
4. Cute
5. Romantic
6. Funny
7. Smart
8. Sensitive
9. Flirt
10. Who understands me really well
11. Who can tell I am sad when I say I am not

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caring, smart, funny, nice, understanding, cute, romantic

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romantic, a gentleman, not pushy, sweet, funny, smart, brave, a man of Faith, and is proud to be with her (her being his gf)

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A guy who wont ask for anything MORE. If you know what I mean. that is just... wrong

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cupcake20

ok top 10
1. likes me for who i am
2. athletic
3. no video games as conversation!
4. Flirt (dont go to far...)
5. funny
6. good grades not perfect, good ( cs then he'll be all nerdy lol)
7. smile for the girl lol i love a smile
8. can be a person to talk to
9. understands me
10. good personality
this is not all but id feel like typing the rest lol

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i just look to see if they'll take my crazy random stupid self for me

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We have different opinions but I guess a lot of girls want someone to respect them and take care of them

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sweet, tough, cute,caring,not to tough,selfless,great wit kids,loves her for her,takes care of me when she's sick,will do anything for her

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nice funny likes sports taller than me not too klingy nice smile great personality never makes fun of people stands up for me n_n

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Attractive, nice, sensitive, flirt, caring, sweet, romantic, and cuddable!!!!!

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conservative, smart and Mormon

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I guess we all have our types
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I prefer nerdy smart guys who tell good jokes speak some other language and are tall and hot

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Six pack abs, a sports car and most importantly tons of cash. Lol do kids even date at 14?

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you would be surprise in know people who have been dating since kindergarden
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I had my first boyfriend when I was 7
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yeah.
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depends on the girl

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cuddly guys

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Be yourself and if there willing to put up with you keep her works for me but im kinda funny random and weird some girls dont like that they like serious and bold hair cut so avoid girls who want to change/improve you

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but some girls like goofy guys. I definately dont like 'em if their to serious.
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hotness, blue or green eyes, someone who is smart, funny, can be silly or romantic, blonde hair or light brown hair, abs, bone structure, no freckles, no pimples, clean, no S.T.D, someone who isn't sex driven, strong, straight hair, has money to take us places, wont cheat, can cook, talented, carefree, daring but not stupid. xD

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I hate guys that cheat!!
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omg ikr
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i wouldnt say no freckles, personally i think guys with freckles are cute,but cheating is unforgivable in my opinion.
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his nature and attitude

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I like guys that are funny, nice, caring, doesnt try to hide me from his friends, likes to talk, will always be there for me, fun to be with, likes me, i love a guy that understands me and my friends, smiles alot, has some stuff in common with me, good at listening. My top one is the talking :) I love to talk alot

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I like guys that are funny, nice, caring, doesnt try to hide me from his friends, likes to talk, will always be there for me, fun to be with, likes me, i love a guy that understands me and my friends, smiles a lot, has some stuff in common with me, good at listening. My top one is the talking :)

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I liked: introverted but confident enough to talk to you. Not being awkward, think of a topic or end the conversation. Funny, kind, empathetic. Good hugs, good smell, good looks and a bit of height to me are always a bonus. (taller = good hugs ) :)

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The key is listening

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Im 14, and I try to find guys that have a good sense of humor :), cute, nice, sweet, will listen to you, wants to talk to you (whether its via text or face to face), kinda shy around you but still talks to you, flirty but not overdoing it. I like it when I find guys looking at me in class, and make eye contact, so try that, and smile when she looks at you.

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Thats me ;) 14. Athletic. Challenges me. Interesting to text. Very supportive. Respectful of my opinions and my timing choices (no pressure) and no dirty flirting!

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i dont know about all girls but its ussually kindness, good humor, cuteness, , a guy who will listen, not too clingy, not overly jealous(it gets old after a while), respect, and isnt overly controlling. Any girl with sense and respect for herself would leave an overly controlling guy.

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attitude and humour

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