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My Little Sister Had Got Tattoos And Piercings with her friends and my mama kicked her out read more

Shes only 14 and Shes had been stealing and stuff Ma Mama Kicked her out and She has to live with Me! Wat i do? My Mom And sister are not talking and i just dont wanna kick my sister out Im not really Ready.For Takeing. Care a Bad A$$ Kid.Im pregnant i have to take it easy

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I guess I disagree here. Your mom has no right to dump HER daughter, which she can't handle, on YOU. Be strong and tell your mom that. Tell your mom to find other housing for her OWN daughter-like rehab...because I guarantee you she's on drugs. Tell your mother to take her OWN daughter to get a drug test which will prove positive in one or more areas, and then put her in a rehab facility where she can get help, not at your house where you're trying to improve your life. Geez! Where was your mom when your sister had the time to get these tattoos at 14? Why was she allowed to be gone so long at 14? Why isn't your mother calling the police on the parlor who gave your sister, a minor, the tattoos ? Why wasn't she being supervised at her own home? Tell your mom NO. Tell your mom IF she puts your sister in rehab, you MIGHT consider taking her in then. Use those conditions as a bargaining tool. But that still doesn't mean you have to do it. My son had big problems. But I NEVER bothered his brothers and sisters with them. It was MY responsibility and I took it. Say NO and get a note from your doctor to prove you mean it.

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her friend can do tattoos....ik unbeliveable
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Oh-I was wondering how she got them...
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use her as practice, your going to have a kid of your own soon and before you know it they will be grown up and acting out like your sister, but you could try bonding with you sister and talking to her about her problems or talking about how cool her tattoos look (just to amuse her you don't have to man it) or going shopping together

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Tell her your doctor told you to take it easy for a while and say that you can't deal with this stress right now , tell your sister to go and apologize to her mom ( I'm 16 and if I were your sister I would only leave if I felt like a bother to you ) of you really want her out tell her if she refuses, yell.

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Shes not. a bother Im afraid but me and my sister get along fine but idk wat gunna happen thnx
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Make a contract. At the age of fourteen a person can get a job. she is to get a job by a certain date that you can decide (should be about 5-8 months minimum). And let her move out of to another house or apartment before the deadline. Keep the contract and have both sing it and don't let her sing unless she reads the WHOLE document

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Your sisters rebellious nature is obviously going to cause a lot of problems not just for her, but for your whole family. Instead of your mom 'handling' it .. she has passed it off it you. Unfortunately, you as her sister, will have even a harder time trying to get through to her that her behaviour is unacceptable. That's a toughie .. there are far better ways to handle a defiant child, than to pass them off to someone else who is ill-equipped to handle them.

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You need to clarify what the rules of the house are. She needs to get a job and start paying the rent. She thinks she can milk the system. Mom wasn't having it. If you don't set some rules and make it crystal clear that real life is difficult, you are about to get used.

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try talking to her about why shes stealing and stuff

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thnx ima do that
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Call your mom and talk to her about your sister. Tell her you cannot have this stress right now and she needs to do something about your sister. Have her call a counselor or someone, to get advice on what to do about your sister. There are a lot of programs, that can help straighten your sister out. It is time your mom asked for help with your sister, but not from you. You have enough on your plate, with the baby on the way. Good luck and take care.

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Talk to your mom and tell her you are the big one over here you should talk to your own daughter and raise her good. Kicking out isn't gonna solve any problem. They should put dots on letters

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