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I might like a very close friend?

I've known him since I was little. He's awesome! I haven't hung out with him for a while except for today. I was with him and a few others. Now here's the thing... He's changed A LOT! Looks wise... he's very attractive. Hanging out with him just felt so awesome! I got this weird feeling.. it's hard to explain... but I may be starting to like him. I'm not completely sure.. but I don't want to like him, at all. How can I somehow make myself not like him? I know you can't control your feelings.. but I don't want to like him. we're too good of friends for any of that! any help? thanks! :)

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Go for it good chance he likes you too. Unles you're ugly as sin :^P

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Hey now! Lets be realistic here... I'm not ugly as sin! xD
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sure....lmao
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John.. Gtfo -_-
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what does that mean? go f*** myself???
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No..
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lmao, well what does it mean!!!!!!???
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-_- **facepalm** figure it out for yourself ;)
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i'm not going anywhere, well besides canada...
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(try not to act like this around your friend)
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what??? lol she is one of my "friends." :P
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Oh I thought you were genuinely arguing for a minute there.
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lol
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she's the crazy type of friend lol
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hey! I ain't crazy ;)
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Think of all of his flaws.

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wht kind of way

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Don't try to control your feelings. When i met my boyfriend Alec, i didn't want to like him and i tried holding my feelings back until i just burst and was crying and getting emotional all the time. It may be wise to not tell him right now, maybe another time. I suggest you tell a really good friend or parent about how you feel, it feels good to talk about the guy you like.

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You cannot really make yourself not like him but all you have to do is tell him your true feelings about him and you guys might feel uncomfortable about each other but if he was your true friend he would still talk to to you...Good luck!

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I say ride it out for the sake of your friendship. Perhaps your feelings will change in the future. Also you could talk to him about them if you are brave enough that is. Perhaps that will give you some perspective. gl

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Hang out with him some more, and see if he picks up on your vibes, and vice versa. Who knows, he may like you more :)

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Waffles

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Hey!! Do me a HUGE favour. Take your dumb@$$ answer elsewhere! Thanks.
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^ she was just being fun, no need to be so harsh
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Umm hun, I need legit answers. Not answers like "waffles." 1. It's a waste of time, and 2. Quite frankly, I don't give a sh!t if I'm being harsh.
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What if I don't want to take my answer somewhere else? Hmm?
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go to help princesss but face
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srry ment butt face lol
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Whatever
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can i say, i told you so???

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Aha! No!! I said I THINK!
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bullcrap, i was right :[]
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Nahhhh ;)
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B!tch, please ;p
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Princess Flores makes a good point

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Please don't answer if you're not going to help...
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Thank you!
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hahaha
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Maybe if you like someone else, think about him instead of your close friend. Sorry, I'm not much help..hah.

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do it i mean your not relly frends if you like him and hiding your feeling will just make it werid when you guys are hanging out knowing tht you like him and he is just innocently thinking of you as one of his best buddies so hiding your feeliing forever wouldt be ok think about 20 yrs from now he gets married and your regretting the fact tht you couldve had a chance with but you blew because you were a coward hope i helped 8)

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