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im scared of dying and its so bad i cant sleep plaese help

im just really scared of losing everything i mean ehat if god doesnt exist or you lose your memory and get reincarnated as a baby but i dont want tht either i want to remember be with family and friends have all the good stuff but tht doesnt explain ghosts or what religion is the real one or everything all the what ifs that cant be answered scare the poop out of me i need help bad please help

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The love of God is like the ocean, you can see its beginnings
but not its end.

ANGELS EXIST, but sometimes, since they don't all have wings we
call them FRIENDS, SUCH AS YOU.
Bless those who call my name, for I shall answer....
As for me A few years ago (April 3rd 2009) 6:20 am. I died on the emergency room floor from kidney's failing. 87% lost. The Doctors brought me back and I was in a coma for 3 weeks. The death and coma seemed like 15 seconds, I was without pain and warm in the Light.. "I WAS HAPPY". I was out then Back. I won't say what I saw, and what was said, but There is a God! TRUST ME ON THIS!

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sir.... I LOVE YOU
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is this story true?
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or are you trying to make me happy
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Awesome story! I haven't been there, but I have felt His presence and I know, as you do, He is!
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Not to worry , my dear
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it just seems a little hard to believe like santa clause
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Whoaaa... Get some sleep... Dont worry about all of this.. But if it keeps you up at night and your constantly anxious about it, get some help too. Lol

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cant sleep its 2 am
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how do i sleep
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Pills
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what pills its 2 in the morning
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Go buy some. Lol
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i answered your blops deuce question
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I saw that. Lol
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yea hardened edition seems stupid
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I guess.. I just freakin wanna play nuke town tho.. Grr
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2025 or zombies
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2025.. I never play zombies
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wow umm do you still have the paper
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if you have the paper try rediwnloading it
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*o
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Yeah ill download it again
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k let me know if it works i dont sleep anyway
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Lol seriously though, go to some therapy..
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i sleep...........eventually
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Yeah but you shouldnt be worrying about dying so much
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im not an emotionally strong person
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Neither am i.. Infact, i want to die sometimes
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id usually be like this maybe twice a year at night usually trying to sleep i was young i shrugged it off but its gotten worse to about every second of every day
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See now that is why you need therapy. Lol
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i did to and then i thought about it and decided death is the unknown the unkown equals scary i dnt want to simple as that but there are so many different beleifs so many possibilities it wouldntake forever to list them off and i want to beleive the good stuff but i cant cause its the unkown no one can say for sure
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knowing that nobody knows for sure what happens is like knowing that santas not real once you realize that its no fun
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Then keep telling your self every day the good things to believe in, eventually your brain will believe it
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once believe something its gard to believe something different
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*hard
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i think i can finally sleep now i can feel it so im gonna go we will continue this tommorrow
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I used to be really scared that the house was gonna burn down, so I just thought of happy things! Unicorns, puppies, cupcakes, summer camp, the color blue, rainbows...

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I did too so I wore a coat to bed, got hot, and dreamed I was burning in the house. I was little then.
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Chill out. You can think about it when you're older. But for now you need sleep.

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That's called paranoia you problem need a therapist.

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Everybody will have to die one day but no one knows the exact day.so do not worry about it and enjoy your life because no one can stop death but we can make our life after death (ever existing life)better by living peacefully in this world.i hope it will help you.do not scare ok be brave!

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tht doesnt f******** help ive been like this for months. ive figured out all that s*** and tht all fear has death as its main root and that it will eventually happen but it doesnt make me feel any better
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Busy yourself in different activities then you will feel better.
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yeah u should get a therapist or acknhowledge the fact that death is an inevitable part of life... i mean sure we all eventually get that feeling you are experiencing but you're gonna have to face the fact that we are all born to die so live to the fullest and pray modern medicine enhances quick over the years for never ending life/immorality lmfao

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I've got bad news for you: There's a 100% chance that you're going to die...some day.
There's nothing you can do to prevent it, and whatever happens when you die will happen. So, since you're powerless to affect the outcome, just accept it (or ignore it) and get on with your life.

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maybe we will be more happy after dying....think positive ...chill out...relax

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Pray to god. Always helps me when I'm scared or frightened. Everything is up to him. If u believe in god of course.

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Doubt is the first step to everlasting happiness. You're doubting so you're way ahead of many of us. Congratulations.
Look at it this way; no matter what religion you believe in; in sure it doesn't ask you to be a bad person. All religions in the world simply ask you to not be an a.s.s. as simple as that. The rest, is just interpretation and conversation. So, if u believe in wrong and right, if you believe in love, them you have absolutely nothing to fear of.
Take a deep breath. Put a smile on your face and remember that tomorrow is a better day because you will appreciate your loved ones more.

Cheers

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You have Thanatophobia, the fear of death. I recommend you visit a psychiatrist or someone who can counsel you on such issues. You are not alone. There is a lot of people out there who fear death.

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See a psychiatrist this could be a repressed problem or something.

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omg i have the same problem..... i have actual panic attacks and i get this aching feeling in my chest and i start to sweat and i breathe heavily..... i understand that its not serious enough to get a theripist cuz i have the se issue when thinking about death. i have a few ways to calm myself down first if anyone is around you then tell them somthing like " i love this weather" and then u will get into a conversation and u will forget about the thought of death. if there is no one around then just lie to your self and just think " when i die i will be old and most likely ready for death" because if you think about ot old people never fear dieing cuz they know they have had a nice long life and they are very wise. i really hoped this helps cuz now im starting to thinl about death and im calming myself down by thinking about my dog whos next to me. just dont let yourself get to deep in thought about the topic...... its nothing that should be worried about because its so far away.... i hope this helps :) feel better

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The reason your afraid of dying is because you don't know where you will spend eternity. But the bible clearly tells us by giving your life to Jesus you can have that assurance of Salvation and that you can know where you will spend eternity. If your truly acknowledge you are a sinner in need of a Lord and Savior and ask Jesus for forgiveness of your sins then Jesus is faithful to forgive you and fill you with a peace and joy within your heart that surpasses all understanding.Then you need to Read His Word ( The Bible ) and pray and find a body of true Christian believers to hang out with and start serving God.

http://www.wikihow.com/Become-a-Christian-According-to-the-Bible

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Our minds are like a computer. You can erase. Every time the thought comes into your mind: say " I refuse this thought ". Erase it. Get busy on a project. Keep busy. The real secret to a happy life is to help other people who are in need. Get your mind on them and you will forget yourself.

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Everyone dies. Concentrate on living to the fullest while you can, since this is the only shot you've got. The memories and experiences you leave behind with your loved ones are your real legacy.

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One you die you wont remember your suffering. All that worrying will be gone; over. Don't fear it, embrace it.

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Do you fear being in pain or suffering first? Death itself doesn't scare me, sometimes the former does. I also don't want to be burden on my family. Death is part of life. If that makes sense.

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By the time its all lost you wont remember a thing. You have nothing to fear.

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