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What do i do if i love a woman in there 20's?

im 15, i know it's illegal but love isnt illegal so please dont keep saying it's wrong or it's illegal... i like everything about her. We have lot's of fun we spend time together i love her personality it's so positive. she help's me feel better when im down. haha when i get her frustrated at me, i find a way to make it up to her. ""this line here is cheesy maybe for you guys but not me""> she make's me a better person... you guys are going to say it's in a teenager's cycle or something like that but it's not... not for me

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this may sound mean but.... she wont probably go for a 15 year old... u should just stay friends or you will ruin tge relationship compleatly

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no, but thank's for your help and honesty.
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Okay I won't tell you it's wrong. Just plan on jail visitation when somebody finds out! Do you watch the news? Wait until you are 18 and if you still "love"her, date her then.

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thank's for your help and advise, very helpful.
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Your welcome
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That's wrong and illegal, the only thing you can do is seek some professional help and it's not true love if she doesn't like you back. Let her get on with her life.

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that's not the only thing i can do, haha horrible advice haha.
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can you read? i didnt want for people to say it's illegal. i already know that ?
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There is nothing wrong with loving her. But you'll need to wait until you're over 18 to do anything else. :) Just be her good friend. :)

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thank you so much ;)
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Your very welcome. :)
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Star . That's the best advice here
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You can get her into a sh*t load of trouble , & you know you don't want that to happen . Good luck . Peace
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What im going to do is tell her how i feel, and wait until im of age to date her. thank's for you cooperation.
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Good idea . You're welcome
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That's a great sensible idea eddyj. If it is love, it will past the test of time.
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Honey, you are going to have to face the fact that you two exist in completely separate worlds. A fifteen-year-old guy is still in high school, has no job (or an inadequate job), and can't even pay to take the girl out. She no longer shares in the world of high school, and she should be either working full-time, or taking a full load of college courses.

To be brutally honest, if a twenty-something woman is really, truly interested in a fifteen-year-old boy, she is almost certainly extremely emotionally immature and will not stand the test of time. The fact that she has no respect for the law doesn't speak well of her, either.

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it's not all about taking a girl out? it's about there ralationship, but thank's
"she is almost certainly extremely emotionally immature"(^). is definitely wrong, just a stupid stereotype by adult's. actually im going to disagree for this i dont need your help im better off with the other help thank you ;)
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You are too emotionally immature to understand what I'm saying to you, so you'll just have to find out the hard way. Just remember that your parents can slap her with statutory rape anytime that it becomes applicable...
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Im waiting until im of age, and you can't tell me im emotionally immature because im not i totally get what your saying to me i choose not to believe it cause it's up to me not you.
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You don't seem immature to yourself, but you are fifteen, and you cannot possibly possess the maturity of a person who is ten or twenty years older than you. That's just a fact of life.

I'm sure that you are a good kid, Eddy, and I wish you the very best in your life. You are not the first young man who has had this problem, and no one can say for sure what will happen with this woman. I hope that it all turns out well for you, how ever it ends. No matter what happens, you will learn a lot from the experience, and that's a good thing. Good luck, sweetie!
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you given great advise^, im sorry for what i said. its just i choose not to take it. sometimes i lose over nothing right. thank's for your cooporation, i just didnt like what you said about your comment but it's over and done with it's behind me now and thanks
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Ok kid just wait for 3 years, and then no one is going to stop u.have patience

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Thank's for your advise sound's good, but to let you know im quite mature for my age.
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Just wait till your an adult and then start a relationship.

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thank's for your advice
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when i was 4 years old i had a crush on a worker student. she got married the same year.

my point is. you are a kid, and she will not go for you

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that's what i ment, what i said in my question i dont want this kind of stuff it's not true. Back off with this
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there are very few female pedophiles, so your chance is close to zero
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@Eddy--When you ask a question on Ask, you can't expect that people are only going to give you the answers you want to hear. Most of us really care about kids like you, and we are responsible enough to tell you the truth.

You cannot control the answers you will receive, and the answers you don't like are the ones you need to hear the most. A serious relationship between a child and an adult is doomed.
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no, i said i didnt want advise like this ^ in my question so people wont say stuff like this.
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^ i said perfectly clear in my question not for this to happen but, it's not that important to keep yappin about it.
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relax kid. people here are just trying to help you
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I am relax, just they way you think im saying it. "ontheflipside" gave better and understanding advise so as the other people that gave the same advise as "onthflipside".
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OnTheFlipSide told you what you wanted to hear. What do you think she is going to do for the next three years while you are waiting to be a legal adult? Do you think she is going to sit around waiting for you?
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i never said she's going to wait for me, i said ill tell her how i feel wait until im of age. then if i have feeling's for her still then ill go back what im doin now. but i didnt say this<<<
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Aside from that eddyj9, they are trying to point out that should you and her get into a relationship, and it turns serious (or not) all it takes is for one adult to go to the police, and this woman would be arrested. Now-a-days they are making "examples" out of women/men dating underage people.I know love is not illegal, but the courts do not want (or care) about that. They go strictly by the laws on the books and WILL enforce it. If you do love this girl, you don't want to see her get into trouble and have to register as a sex offender the rest of her life do you?
I know you don't want that. Stay FRIENDS until you are of age where nobody would be arrested and have their lives ruined.
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and no, i like her advise better because it fit's best with my situation.
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....then that's what you need to go with.
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Wait until you are 18.

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exactly what im doin.
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There is no age for love but I think u should wait until you're legal 18

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Thank's bro, better then this lady trying to give advise that doesnt help.
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It isn't wrong like they all said wait until your 18.. if not you will be living in jail ha

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Well if she truly loves you then she'll wait 3 years. It sounds like you do love her! I'm 15 too and I know how you feel about loving someone who's not your age, but I got over it. But you just keep on trying!:) Good Luck!

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