That's a tough call. If he cheats on his wife he's got it coming. And I feel his wife needs to know. On the other hand if it were me I wouldn't feel right being the one to tell her. It sounds like a fine mess you're in the middle of and I honestly don't know what I'd do if I were in your situation.
Texasdogmom is so wrong! Basically condoning infidelity so as not to destroy a marriage that God put together! What kind of wacked out belief is that? Personally I would tell him how pathetic he is, then contemplate telling her! She should know, I sure as heck would want to! Your call, as far as the other girl... She sleeps with a married man... What a catch she would be!
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IF .. you have your facts straight ... You can't 'ruin' his marriage ... HE has already done that.
If however, you are asking if you should tell and let the 'cat out of the bag', and because you want her to know, not because you are experiencing petty jealousy ... well, you just better make sure you KNOW the facts and don't just suspect something.
Many marriages have fallen victim to circumstance created by a revenge from a third party (like you). Don't act on suspicion .. it could be devastating to this couple's family .. and totally unwarranted.
What I would do is talk to this 'friend' .. and I use that term loosely. Let him know that YOU know, and that he has to come clean with his wife because you will not support infidelity.
Remember .. this is a family you are dealing with .. not just a guy would you are pissed at.