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Should I take my wife back ?

I was married ten years and my wife left me for another guy. Now she wants o come back and make our marriage work. I was so happy that we started to talk again and when I said I love you she told me that she did not love me. what should I do?

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If she said she doesn't love you, why are you even considering it?????? She left you once, and now says she doesn't love you. That should be enough for you.

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candybar
That's a star! I don't even know why he's asking!
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He is a transitional marker.
She is user-friendly.
She will hurt him all over again as she empties his wallet.
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yep yep
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I still love my wife very much even if she hurt me I still love her the reason why I am asking is to get encouragement because not taking her back is the hardest thing to do when you care
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MichaelDunatov just know that your not the only guy or gal for that matter that after all still love the ones that hurt them. I personally know two friends, good guys that put up with this kind of situation. So you got some good advice here. I suggest you take it. For the exception of the arroyo's.
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I agree OKAYASHIEDDIE. thank you
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Thank you all I feel a lot better I was seeking wisdom and I got it
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Depends... Do you still have the receipt ?

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You shouldn't take her back. If she left u once, she'll do it again =/
You can always find someone else. :) There's plenty of other girls out there :D

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Do you want to be with somebody that doesn't love you? I'm afraid she will leave you again when the next great guy comes around

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Don't walk away, RUN! Your about to be used! Love is a two way street, with bumps, hills, and valleys! When they abandon a road it never is the same again. You have been abandoned once, do you really need to drive down that way again!

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Say it again! And again and again and again!!!!!!!
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candybar
Wow. That's all I have to say.
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thank you I do feel the same way
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Gee, every once in a while I get a couple of electrons in my brain pan that collide at just the right moment to produce a semi logical answer! The rest of the time the mods boot me!
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hahahahaha You are toooooo funny!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I hear ya, RetiredKop! Forget the zombie apocolypse - modbots rule!
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Run forest run.

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candybar

Don't be desperate. She doesn't love you. It can't be any more clear than that. You deserve soooo much better, and it will happen. Kick her to the curb.

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Or if you live in an 8,000 foot desert like I do, you have no curbs, but have a few very deep arroyo's!
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candybar
Ha! That's funny!!
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That's some backyard, R-Kop. I hope you don't have to rake it before company comes.
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NO!!!!!!!!!! Sounds like she wants step all over you again.

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You are the transition plan. You are about to be used to help her get established again. To test this, she should have a job and a place of her own to live and you two date for a year before anything else happens. Don't pay for anything. Be strong through this. She doesn't love you. Get busy with other things and have a solid hold on your wallet.

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