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My wife compares me to ex ! Size looks everything ! Now 14 years later still feeling low esteem ! And can't get over it !Is marriage over!

I was mentally and verbally and physically abused! all of a sudden I felt that I don't have to put up with it! before I was able to handle things now I can't !

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Tell her to go back to her ex, and then go find yourself a GOOD woman.

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You need a counselor. Asap.

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Phlorence_602

Um, sir, I would love to help you, but, what exactly is your question?

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Um, madam, he mean the size!!! Bwahaha!!!
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Phlorence_602
Lmao!
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I can't get to see how my wife really feels about me ! And I can't be my self with her due her criticizing me so am always trying to be that person she has in her mind ! I don't know how this got this far ! But it is killing me inside and I'm just there! She told me things that I can't handle ! And mainly about me as not having a large penis as her ex! Not tall enough like her ex! Not picking her up like her ex!! Who she was having this great sex with ex in all different positions! How she feels small and feminine next to him! She can't get that with me !(we are same size)!!
I don't know I think we both thought thing will change ! And that we will grow older together !
Am just not happy and not feeling good about myself around her any more!
So my question ! Is this the big Sign of Divorce! And if not how can I feel good about myself ? Knowing that I'm never gonna get there in her eyes !!
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just_saying

This has been going on for 14 years? Maybe you could both go to counseling?

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Is marriage over? It damn well needs to be, sorry. She's MEAN!

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Carpediem, is this you again under a different account?

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PinkonPink

You need to let her go. You need someone who won't do things to hurt you. You need a divorce. Sorry but you and her are not meant to be. She needs to realize that the past is the past, and she needs to live in the present.

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Your wife is mean!!!!

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if you are loved then the behavior of you wife is incorrect!are you there for her benefit or for yours

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on the cool you should Change what you do try something new something she Will be like wow like hit the gym man or something around thear she is probably getting tired of the same things you know what i mean ?

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Sorry but it sounds like ur wife is a b1tch. Get a new one who will recognize how big u really are

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is the marriage over?! hells bells, it never got started!! call a cab and get out of there..." and start LIVING!"

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Been there done that , all I can say , move on!

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