What should I do?
My father recently passed. His second wife of 27 years (not my mother) sent me an email basically telling me I was the worst daughter and never paid any attention to my father and his needs, that I pretty much disrespected her and that I stole family pictures and my mom's recipe cards from him. At the family gathering for Christmas she made all of the "daughters" (all my sister-in-laws) a scarf, everyone except me. I know that misery loves company, but this is all just plain evil. I want so badly to stoop to her level and let her have it, but I know she just won't get it. I need to let it go, but just cannot seem to. Help!