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Day four of grieving! How am i supposed to get through this?

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My dad died during xmas too 6 years ago and i still cant get over it I'm sorry Nichole but it doesn't get any easier just take it day by day thats what i do

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another day.......and.... I'm sorry : {

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It sucks
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It just takes time to get over things. Force your mind to think of something different or do something you enjoy

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It's so hard
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candybar

Um, over your boyfriend? What are you grieving about?? We might be able to help you more if we knew what was going on.

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my dad died last year
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candybar
Oh, that's just awful and I do feel your pain. Just know he's watching over you.
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It's like i can't get over it.
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candybar
I get it. And I'm so sorry. Holidays always bring up memories. I'll pray for you if that's ok.
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You can do anything to help if you want to.
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Your dad died a year ago and you are still grieving terribly. I'm so sorry. This is the sign that you need to see a grief therapy counsellor to help you move forward so that you can enjoy your life. Your dad wouldn't want you to suffer like this.

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BoxingTally

It just happens, comes and goes. Probably will help once the holidays are over. My sis died this year, and I realize how much she meant to me over the holiday. Just hang in there or speak to a therapist or join a group.

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One day at a time, sometimes one moment at a time. I still quietly grieve for my mother, but it does get better, I promise. Stay active, lean on loved ones and know that you will get thru this. You are in my prayers. Blessed Be.

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My mom died 21 years ago when I was 10 years old. It still hurts sometimes, Give yourself time. The loss will always be felt, but not with such gut-wrenching intensity.

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