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I dated my best guy friend, biggest mistake ever advise!?

ok well about 2 weeks ago i asked a question on here and people told me to date my bff (his a guy lets call him josh) well i dated him but the he was texting my ex (peter) and they got in a fight, then josh called me a sl*t, player and a c*nt so i dumped him and now he's posting stuff bout me EVERYWHERE how do we become friends again!!!!!

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why would you want to be friends with a guy that called all of those HORRIBLE names?
Girl.. Move on to better friends SERIOUSLY!

Here is my words of wisdom for the day.
if you REALLY want to become friends with "josh" again (which i find totally ridiculous!) Then you two need to sit down and have a SERIOUS conversation. You need to stick up for yourself. Those names he called you are horrible names. No one should be called those names. EVER! Anyways here is what I would say to "Josh" First of all he owes you a HUGE apology!!!! Then you need to tell him that those names he called you and the way he is acting, by posting stuff everywhere was VERY disrespectful, immature and hurtful to you.
If "Josh" was really your friend, he would of NEVER called you those names and posted stuff EVERYWHERE, No matter what "Peter" said.
Good Luck. :)

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ya i jus sorta miss him lik wen the rest of the skool hated me he stood by me and even told off his bff's but i guess i should thx :)
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it all depends on you, do you think he is worth it? if he is treating you badly then he is not worth your time. if you think that both of you are worthy and ready to be friends again, then go ahead and do so.

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we just broke up on friday :'(
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oh, i'm so sorry. i would take a bit of time to straighten out your feelings, and give him time as well. when you are ready to make your decision about him, go ahead.
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thx :)
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no problem, hope everything works out!! :)
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Dump him. I am sure you don't deserve to be treated like that. No girl does.

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i dumped him on friday :'( but i miss him as a friend but thx
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I bet you miss him. It will all be fine though :)
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thx
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No prob :)
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