arraigned marriage is not love. might be miserable with the one you are paired with. anyone with common sense wouldn't go for an arraigned marriage although I have heard that Elvis has left the building with the common sense of a lot of people who go for arraigned marriage.
I'm all for love over an arranged marriage any day, but the 'lovely arranged marriage' would be a heck of a lot easier than the whole messy dating circuit. And it would probably be good for the life of the marriage if both parties go into it knowing they're going to have to put in an effort to make love work. So many marriages end because one or both parties quit working on the relationship and then claim they just don't "love" each other anymore. But love is something you DO, not just something you feel.