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Why are my feelings dull for my girlfriend?

I love her dearly but I don't have that strong feeling of attachment and passion anymore. we have been together almost 3 years. I don't wont to lose her. is this normal? I guess you could say the spark is gone. I love being around her and we get along just fine. I would take a bullet for her and not think twice. I just don't feel really close and crazy for her anymore.

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The spark doesn't stay forever when the newness is over everyone gets bored you have to find new ways to make it exciting again..Bring it up like I wish we still acted and felt the same way when we first met.Also if you don't live together,try to have a little time apart and when you see each other again it will feel better at least it helped me and im going on 5 years looking at the same face lol

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Soccerismylife14

U r getting bored w the same girl

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Talk to her about it

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Well go out more, have a great communication cause communication is the way to a great relationship

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Well you've been with her for a while now and your feelings aren't that crazy, but you still lover her and I think that is normal :)

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Time to get a change of scenery, and I mean that literally, not figuratively. I know a weekend here and there has done wonders for my husband and I when we are feeling a bit stuck in a rut and bored.

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Depends on how old you both are, but first time (e.g. high school) relationships sometimes run their course, and it may just be time to split up. Doesn't mean it has to be forever, you can always reconnect. She may feel the same way you do. Time apart may do you both good.

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I agree..
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1. Mabie your so busy, you just dont know her anymore
2. Mabie you never knew her very well, how often did you guys talk
3. dont be like most, things dont get boring, you just get harder to occupy appreciate small things accept what is and dont try to get more
4. do something different.

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What are you trying to say? All of your answers run together, spelling, and grammar are atrocious to say the least! I'm assuming English isn't your first language.
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if you read the comas, the things make more sense, I apologies for the language, but when I misspell a word, I use the auto-correct thing on here, and it chooses the wrong thing on here.

please point out "mistakes"
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BoxingTally

That is just what happens naturally...

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You like her it's just ur a type of guy that u can cheat .. u like new girls different atmosphere etc ur not just a 'settle down guy type 'which is bad
Anyways , take care

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