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All of my friends have bigger boobs than me, and they rub it in all the time (not on purpose) What should I do? It really bugs me.

My friends are all at least size 36B, I'm just a 34A.. It really bugs me because they're always like "OMG I just figured out I'm a C cup now!" and send me pictures of there new bra's and when I try to tell them it bugs me they get mad and they call me rude.

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hey dont worry your beautiful just the way you are you dont need plastic surgery i bet theres guys that like you and anyways itll come faster than you think

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That's like the sweetest thing someone's said
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Especially if your. A guy
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well thanks

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Nice One Mr Greig!! :) Ur a Doll!
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Plastic surgery?

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Really?
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No!
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Mr_FadedGlory

Tell them it's not that big of a deal, they're not that much bigger than you.

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Give it time. Your body will catch up.

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Lolololol. I laughed so hard at the first part. Anyways, don't let it bug you. Breasts put strain on the neck and back, overly large ones will make them bend and have back problems.
Suckers ;)

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i feel your pain haha im the same way. just take it in a good way! when they complain that shirts dont fit them correctly or they cant wear shift dresses, just take the chance to subtly rub in the fact that you can. :)

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I agree, good point! My older sis was a DD in yr 11 and I was totally jealous, but shopping is difficult for her, plus there aren't many sexy bra's when you get into the granny-style sizes.
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Ignore 'em. Who cares, there's not much you can do about it other than plastic surgery (and the implants have to be taken out and replaced every 10 yrs). Just wear a push up bra and walk with attitude. Or stick in chicken fillets when you're going out if you're thaaaat desperate. Stressing about it isn't going to make them grow any bigger.

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Bigger isn't always better.

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Yes it is
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Yeah it kinda is
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These people -.-
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No bigger isn't always better but real is better than fake.
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Word. There are so many small chested women out there that are fantastic. Juliette lewis, natalie portman, meee lol
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^haha, I'm on the list too
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Haha we all have bigger bo0bs than you jk your gonna catch up

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Be happy with what you got, and besides, your body will eventually catch up. Don't let it bother you.

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My friends are like that too. I'm a 34C and my friends always want to go bra shopping (they're all dcup and up :( ) One of my best guy friends even said he has bigger boobs than me :P Just don't let it get to you, you still have growing to do. And there's always push up bras. :)

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Boobs aren't hot... They are just chunks of flesh... You won't have as much as a saggy chest when your older...

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Lol! My husband (a legs and rear end kind of guy) calls them udders, like on a cow.
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Good to know...
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Lol when theyre gonna be pregnant they are gonna be a triple D lol and ur gonna be a C so ...

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if you want them a bit bigger, massage them every night. but, all my friends with bigger boobs complain about them lol, & guys don't even caare about boobs that much nowadays.. its all the butts :D

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Trust me mate, In America, they do, they just don't say it, I dont care about physical apperence though.
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Wait until their old, every time they walk their gonna trip on their boobs. Don't be upset about it tho think positive about yourself

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I wish people wouldn't say 'you'll catch up' as if there aren't grown women with A cups. Don't worry about what those other girls have. You are perfect just the way you are, whether you ever 'catch up' or not. Don't worry either about the opposite sex because not all men care about big boobs. That really is the truth, even though it may not seem that way now. And who says just because you are smaller that you can't buy pretty bras and show them off to your friends, too? They may be a little bit harder to find, but they definitely make them. There is absolutely no reason you should feel left out just because of your size.

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As I said in my answer to her, there is much more to a real woman than that. I prefer small to medium myself.
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I love this answer! I'm a petite gal so all those "you'll catch up" comments aren't true.
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ya ikr!
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People are beautiful, A cup or DD, you are perfect just the way you are. Be thankful everyday for what you have. Don't worry about your bigger chested friends, at least a guy will look you in the eyes. ;)

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Please tell your b00bs to stop staring at me. O_O
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Wow ur fwiends are different cause my fwiendz make fun of me cause my boobs are huge but don't let it bother you cause everyones perfect the way they are and next time they call u rude say well ur the one who's sending me txts how big ur bras are

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Not all men care about the size. There are advantages to having smaller breasts. I prefer small to medium size myself. There is much more to a real woman than the size of her breasts.

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Estelle has the right answer, stand tall and walk with attitude. Confidence makes you way prettier :-) Speaking of that, do something that gets you more in touch with your body like dance, yoga, or sports. You will be empowered. When they brag, just say something positive and move the conversation on to something else. If they see you getting upset they will tease you more. Just be happy with you and they will notice that as well.

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Just tell them to back off , your probably really pretty anyways it doesn't matter how big they are it matters how you are.

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TRY not to let it get to you. Americans put too much emphasis on large breasts and I know it's difficult sometimes to not let it bother you.
All the comments saying you'll catch up aren't true. It's wishful/hopeful thinking. There are plenty of grown women who wear an A cup, there are some who wear AA in petite. Everyone is built different.
It is true that as you age your breasts sag, sometimes not even age as pregnancy and child birth changes your breasts also. Your friends may have larger breasts now, but in time they'll be down to their bellybuttons.
My husband calls them udders. As in look at those giant udders on that cow.
Even if you stay small and petite, there are plenty of men/guys out there who like a small petite girl.

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Boobs aren't everything. Things could be worse. You could have breast cancer. Try to be happy with what you've got, not with what you don't have.

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It's terrible that they have to carry on like that. I'd just ignore the comments and delete the photos of their new bras. When they start sagging, your breasts will still be firm and where they are supposed to be. And, you aren't finished developing.

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I'd rather have a pretty face like yours than an ugly one with big boobs.

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I hate having big boobs. Don't pay attention to your friends because one day you will grow over night and then you can say. Hey do y'all like my new bras. Believe me it will happen. :)

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but some adult women r a cup
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That is true. Nice point!
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Don't worry if you have large breast it could cause problems.

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trust me i'm in the same place as you Im only 40A it sucks. And I am almost 16

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you mean 30 A?
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listen mate, you don't need to have big boobs or to be really skinny to be loved mate, because ya' beautiful without it. It don't matter whether their boobs are bigga' because they let their body's be what they are judged by, not their morals are ability to love another human being. Take it from an Auzzy, almost everyone in Australia is flat mate, but when a busty person shows up, we treat them no differently, because we know that looks ain't what matter mate. I will pray that ya' friend learn the same and God comports ya'. It's not physical beauty that matters.

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Depends on your age because i used to be like that ..i always had friends with wayyyy bigger boobs than me and i was always a AA cup :( but trust me when you least expect it they will grow like me in 2011 i was a AA cup and in 2012 i turned into a C cup and trust me its not as fun as it seems cuz it hurts to sleep on and you cant run cuz they flop everywhere and hit you lmfaooo

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Haha "flop" (:
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