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The Girl i Love' Loves My Best Friend. I'm Trapped

Me and my friend working together. few days ago the company appoint a new girl. the first day when i saw her i fall in love with her.I told my friend about this too. My friend said she is all yours love her blah blah. the girl she gives her mobile number to me & we talk like too friendly. I'm always there for her as a friend when she is down and I make her laugh all the time. but today when my friend leave's his mobile on my car & i checked his messages i found that girl massages.like she is flirting with him. My friend hides that from me.they both betrayed me. i know that my friend is a sharp playboy he do not love her. he's just a hunger of sex. if i tell the girl about these things my friend gonna hurts or maybe he break our friendship. So i don't wanna ruin our friendship.

Right now I'm confused what to do next. Help Me :(

Sorry for my bad English.

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cool pal...the friends are not worth trusting...thank God you've got to know that before they could cheat on you further....go ahead and live your life bull blast and let this incident not affect you...look for better friends....

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Bro You gave extra energy right now. Cool
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live life positive friend...no point in hurting yourself over unloyal friends and brooding about it.....
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You rock.
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thanks pal....
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Time to cool it with both of them. They deserve each other. But, you shouldn't be snooping in his messages. Shame on you too.

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Mate He also checked my msgs sometime & i checked his. So not a big deal.
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Okay, then.
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She's only been there a few days. She's entitled to talk to anyone she wants. You had no right to check your friends messages. Some friend YOU are.

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if you are not in an exclusive relationship then s/he can be flirtatious with whomever. Sounds like she enjoys talking with you - did you invite her out? You can't be in love with someone the first time you see them and expect her to be feeling the same. As for your friend sounds like he is having fun with her just like you - unless you are dating her

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Checking your so called friends phone was not cool but now you know telling her about him will not change anything be the better person and let it go she will see how much of a looser he is on her own

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Well, don't go fishing off of the company peer. Go fishing elsewhere, always. It is almost always a very bad idea to get involved with people who work where you do. Your story is another perfect example.
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Don't go fishing off the company peer.

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This so called friends wouldn't help you to get to her. They would just use her and leave her to suffer and regret later on. Meanwhile you can look for another girl. She is clearly not interested in you

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Dump her.

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She fast and loose and fancy free find some one who is not flirty and you might find that there feelings will be more honest than the girls that play all the boys with sweet talk what she says to you is what she probroly says to him

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Cyber said it never ever date at work
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