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How do i get a woman back who is dating someone & told me she needed time?

We love each other & I never committed because she is going through a divorce, now she's dating someone & told me she needed time.I have no idea what to do,people to me to give her space, ect. I'm lost Can I get her back?

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She told you her answer when she started dating someone. She has moved on.

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I agree completely.
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The people are right give her space , if she loves you she will come back , the best way to run someone off is to keep bugging them ! Good luck. !

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Give her space. Let that guy be the rebound guy.

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I wanted her to get through the divorce without giving her husband any ammo in court, so I guess i really didnt go all out on her & I thought we had this understood, but she's often said she was impatient, Three weeks ago she's tlling me how much she loves me, then goes on this online dating site & now she's dating & says to give her space ect ect
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Two possibilities come to mind here:
1. It doesn't seem to likely. See, while you are sitting here wondering right now, she is probably a few kilometres down the road, kissing/hanging out with her man. If she wanted to be with you, she would be thinking abut you, and seeing you.
2. It could on the other hand, mean she really cares for you, and she'd rather be with this other guy as a rebound until she can pick up all the pieces of her brain. Maybe she just isn't ready yet, and doesn't want to risk screwing things up with you. I'm in that position right now- I've been holding back for almost 3 years now on my man (we both know we will end up together in the end, so he is willing to give me space).

It's a tough one, because you can't exactly just say "I know we are going to end up married later on, just don't get a serious girlfriend while I get my sh!t together", It's more an unspoken feeling between us that we have just implied through certain things we say to eachother.

Good luck, I hope your gut can give you more answers than me!
Either way, try not to let it dampen your spirits!

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Maybe I was just too slow or stuck in my ways for her.
what does # 2 mean
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Like, she doesn't want to mess things up with you
ie. She doesn't want to talk too excessively about the ex
She is having a mini mental breakdown and doesn't want to cry to you about a different man
She is having a mini freak-out.
you, know, pretty common breakup symptoms.
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Remember, it's not up to you ALONE whether or not you go out, you can't manipulate her into it, she has to make her own mind- which applies in both scenarios 1 and 2.
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Let her go, if your meant to be together she will come back to you!! Mean while move on, like she has.

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Give her time, if she's really interested she will let you know, but don't put your life on hold for her!
Don't pass up another girl in hopes of her coming around, you never know it could never happen

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Time to take inventory on your relationship. She told you she wanted space, because she didn't want to be with you, at least not quite yet.... But she started seeing someone else .. But you still think she is in love with you. Doesn't any of this sound a little funny to you?

My guess is, although she cares for you, she is not in love with you and she
doesn't want to pursue a relationship with you. You are just going to make yourself nuts over someone that is just not interested. Time to cut your losses, and move on.

If it's any consolation, if she is newly divorced, she may very well just simply not ready to jump into a serious relationship so soon after her divorce. She needs time to find out who she is, and what it is that SHE wants and needs. Your pressuring her for more, may just complicate things.

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Let her go... sounds like drama. I could never say I love someone then date someone else!!! Let it go, she's showing you better than she's telling you.

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