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my boyfriend wants to kiss me...but i am nervous!?

we are in 8th grade. he tried to kiss me but i rejected it and started to blush and almost cried because i felt so nervous and embarrassed. what do i do? i know he will try again soon! i am scared! any tips?

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If your nervous and not ready, tell him. I was really nervous the first time I kissed a guy. But once it was done, I wasn't nervous much anymore because of the kissing just because of the guy and I really liked him, we ended up breaking up though. Anyways if you feel he is moving too fast for your liking just tell him. And there isn't anything to be embarrassed about every girl goes through this either they are ready for the kiss but he isn't or he is but she isn't. There's no need to rush anything your still young, don't worry about it :)

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easy: tell him to wait.
you're ONLY in 8th grade girl! chill out- you don't need a boyfriend!

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my thoughts exactly!
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SERIOUSLY. if boys make you stressed out so much, then don't even bother with them!
I don't see how it's so difficult to see that
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We can have a bf it is just that we shouldn't be falling in luv in eighth grade
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dont do it if you dont want to. it's as simple as that. if he likes you he would understand and respect that

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well i mean i WANT to but i am still a little bit nervous
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that's going to happen. but if you want to go for it
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You wait until you're not nervous.

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Girl you do not need a boyfriend at this age but if you do want to kiss him be confident and go for it! :)

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I was in 8th grade when I had my first kiss and I was super nervous. I almost didn't kiss him. I just talked to him about it and he understood. So my advice is to talk to your boyfriend and if he is a good guy then he will understand.

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Nothing will happen just close ur eyes and go for it

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Well if you're not ready and don't want to, tell him. If you're ready and just nervous, just don't freak yourself out. You can't really mess up just a little kiss. You'll be fine.(:

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well, I was nervous too, but also really curious. there's nothing to be afraid of, once you kiss him, you will wonder why you were so nervous. go for it girl! :)

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why kiss some1 u dont need to worry about that ur only in 8th grade





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but we want too and we are ready i am just a little nervous
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You are in 8th grade!! You don't need to kiss anybody but your mom and dad!!

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Ok heres what you are gonna do, when you give him a hug kiss him on the cheek, that will give you this shot of confidence and he will kiss you and you won't be nervous, I've don't it many times and it always works. Do you think you can do that? If not tell me what won't work for you.

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well that sounds good but umm i am only 5'2 and he is like 5'10
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Tell him you have to tell him something pretend your gonna whisper to him but really kiss him on the cheek.
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tell him how u feel about it. maybe he'll slow down the ride...if u know what i mean

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well i mean, i really want to kiss him but i am nervous
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jst take it slow. i had my first kiss because of peer pressure when i was little and i regret. its ok just make sure hes marriage material or your wasting ur kiss and ur love
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when he kisses u close ur eyes so u cant see his reaction or face during the kiss

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Well I am kinda like that to what I do is I am just like - I should go I am going to be late, and it works or you could tell him ur not ready

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If are not ready then tell him to wait, but if you just stay calm and when the right moment comes just kiss him. Good luck :)

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how long have you been with him? if a week or so it might take longer until you are use to him that is if you both aren't really open with each other. listen it took me 3 months just to kiss a guy whom i was dating and it was scary. i was nervous and all too. but if you're nervous you should let him know so that he can try to fix it and that you won't be scared to do this. in plus it is your choice so...good luck ^_^

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thank ya!! we have been dating 3 months
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really! lol then that's good lol you should be ready by then but if you aren't lol let him make the first move Xp i was suppose to make the 1st move because he wanted me to but he did instead. it's okay. just let him know you are scared and let him be the 1st to kiss you. ^+^
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okay thank you soooo much!! :)
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lol np :D
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just open and go "d;kjf;dhf;djhgkjdnkgfnhgiuoyrhepiahid;"
jk ha

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close your eyes, picture channing tatum, and the rest will fall into place. xx

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Witabi
Thats what i do and im a dude! Jk :)
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Witabi

Do it when ever you feel com fortable and listen ?

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Just don`t over think it. When you do that, you get more and more nervous.

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Spike_The_Hedgehog

Just wait for the time to come.

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french , lips ,cheek,
no , yes , yes

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Just kiss him. He would probably be worrying about the same things you are! "am i a good kisser?"
"does my breath smell bad?"

and all those things. Just close your eyes and give him a 'peck' but NOT a slobbery french kiss

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tic tacs. works everytime

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same thing with me i am in sixth grade i just kissed him today and it turned into making out and we french kissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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