you must not b ready to b with one person. you can't keep that secret and be with him forever. it will eat u up. b honest. you both may find real happiness elsewhere. being single is OK too. if its meant to be you will stay or get back together
Tell him. It's better for him to know than for you to wait for him to find out, because it'll be worse if he finds out later. If you tell him now, you might have a chance to salvage you're relationship, or at least still have a chance at being friends.
It would be kinder and much less painful to ease back the relationship. Still remain close friends Just acknowledge to yourself you are not ready to be a committed partner You are still a social butterfly. You are likely to struggle with being faithful.
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Tell him as soon as possible, waiting until later will make things worse than they already are and he'll just feel stupid that he didnt know all this time.& dont sum it up, tell him what he needs to know.
Uh, next boyfriend... don't cheat. It always comes out. I haven't ever cheated ever. But have been on the receiving end & it always surfaces. End the relationship before you start a new one. Respect your body. Respect the one you say you love!
Well for every actions you take there's a price to pay its either one of them you tell him before he hears it from other people or you tell him an talk it out if you guys can forget about it and move on together
Your afraid he will find out? You need to tell him! You cheated on him and your worried he will find out!, guess you should have been thinking of that before you cheated on him. I don't think you love him, if you did you wouldn't have cheated on him, and please don't say it only happened because you were drunk. Life goes on, if your lucky he will forgive you, if he's smart he won't. I've been married 25 yrs. and never cheated on my wife, tempted.. Yes but I love and respect her too much to brake that trust! Good Luck, I hope you learned a lesson, we all make mistakes!