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I'm 15 and I have lustful thoughts am I going to hell

I mean does it still go the same if ur a teen? I'm so confused and I get so frustrated because I dont know the true I always hear people say yes and know. I don't really do anything bad and I find that 2 people sharing something is beautiful! but I have no intintion in participating in it right now... is jt a sin just to think of the sounds

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You can't be punished for your thoughts. It's ridiculous that religious figures make you think that way. You're fine sweetie, what you are experiencing is perfectly normal. Don't let anyone tell you any different.

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JamesKaeberle
What do you know your not even a Christian.
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I never claimed to be. I have read the bible, and used to attend churchs. I know a thing or two.
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I totally agree. Sometimes this world is too harsh.*************
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JamesKaeberle
Not about this.
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James, Cj is right. STOP.
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ShayJay, it never changes. The majority of the Christians on here are such hypocrits. They do/say things that they shouldn't say, and can go pray right afterwords, and have no shame or regret for having done what they did, because "God" forgives them.
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JamesKaeberle
Excuse me. Better guess again. People have know right giving advice to people that don't know what the Word of God says. If you feed off your thoughts it leads to sin.
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James, please learn to spell. I really have a hard time taking anything you say seriously.
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JamesKaeberle
My spellings fine must be your eyes or your thoughts. :-)
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No sweetheart, it's definitely your spelling.
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No lol natural you cant help it. Just dont do anything stupid.

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nice answer.******
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no, lustful thoughts are not in themselves a mortal sin, its what you do with those thoughts that matters

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very good answer. Lustful thoughts are like a bird dropping.....you maybe can't present it from hitting your head, but u don't have to let that bird which msns on your head build a nest and lay eggs!
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exactly
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Dude one day your wings will spread right now stay in your young cocoon

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Lmao
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No, what happens in your head it private and if its not hurting anyone or affecting them in anyway than you're fine :)

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No, not necessarily. I'ts normal to want to think about things like this. But like RexViatores said, just don't do anything stupid.
EDIT: "You're 15, you should be feeling butterflies in your tummy, not a baby kicking!" -Ted

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I love you answer. good one.*****
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Thank you!
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I don't think so.

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You're 15 and horny. That's normal. Heck, there'd be something really wrong with you if you were 15 and weren't horny!

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exactly.*************
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Nobody knows if jeaven or hell really exist,to have a solid opunion..most people talk without knowing,so dont worry,u will not go to hell,is totally normal and healthy to have lustful toughts at your age..dint pay attetion to religious freaks

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You spell heaven with a j on purpose?
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religious freaks? lol...and we say don't pay attention to irreverent non-religious ones!
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Irreverent? What i mean by religious freaks is EXTREMIST people ..im not what u just called me..i would change my opinion in a heartbeat with proper evidence..so if u felt touched by my comment u must be one of the..so f*** u and have a nice day
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Rex it was a mispelling i didnt see it
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You might not want to dwell on them...

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It is actually really very healthy and it will be even healthier if you could divert that energy into something good like exercise, or an expressive form if art or even dance and music.

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THis might be a stupid question but what does lustful mean

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It means, thoughts of sex. lust & sex.
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or sexual thoughts.
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lustful is anything tho ditto with fleshly carnal desires: usually referring to sexual things, but can be other things like money and riches....or anything else humans would lust after....or put before God
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Ohhh okay makes sense thanks
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No, sweetheart, you're not going to hell. God made our bodies to have sexual feelings. He just meant for us to really save ourselves for our husbands or wives. Of course, that's "old-fashioned" now. But just don't act on those thoughts, and if you feel that they are going too far, you can always pray. You know He can help!

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Good answer.******
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Thank you, Shay
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The moment those thoughts come to mind you need to rebuke them. Don't feed on them or it will eventually lead to sin.

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Trust me. You have not had any thoughts that EVERY other person hasn't had. It's not evil, it's just the way we're made. Every person you have ever met, read about, seen on TV, or has answered your questions here, has had the same thoughts. You cannot control your thoughts. You can only control your actions. Lighten up on yourself. You're OK.

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Lighten up..
I love that. ******
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Well said:)
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Look, your hormones are driving you crazy right now. Do what you've gotta do, but draw the line at sex & oral sex. You need to take care of your hormones, not someone else. Don't get into binding yourself to boys, its hard to break.

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listen, masturbation will not send you to hell. be very careful not to engage in sexual acts with men or women. its ok, love God & strive for a closer relationship with him.
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First off your a teenager, you got all sorts of hormones running through you, second your worried about going to hell because of that, really I can name several things that would give you an almost straight shot to hell and I can tell you that isn't one of them (just to let you know, I'm not really
Religious) your being slightly ridiculous

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No. Well, not because of that anyhow. We are all weak, sinful humans and we ALL (no matter how much someone denies it) have lustful thoughts at some point. That you understand it isnt right is a good start. If you lust after someone appligize to God and ask Him to help you control your thoughts.
Youll only go to hell if you havent chosen to follow God and accept His gift of grace through Christ.

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Nah, but be weary that thoughts turn into words and words turn into action. Much of the time when people think about something, if given the opportunity they would act on those thoughts so in a way thoughts are the same as action because we are not men of circumstance. Everyone has those thoughts though so don't worry about it, it's natural! I would however suggest trying to control it a little...although it is quite difficult haha

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Ask you're priest or whatever he is, there are athiests here you know.

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No, not even if there is such a place,if no one ever thought of sex, there could be no continuation of our species, as matter of fact we wouldn't be here, only in religion can one have babies without sex, your feelings are normal, although you are much to young to act on those feelings

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