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Middle school drama. Please help me out

my "friend" Natasha has been friends with me since 5th grade. we have been the bestest of friends ever until we started middle school. she started to change. only a little though. so I though, okay well it's fine we will still be good friends. but then she started to get all weird around me. she never talks to me. only to abbey, my other good friend. it's really making me sad because abbey makes it obvious that she likes Natasha better and it makes me want to cry. Natasha makes it obvious by blocking me on instagram, denying it, not talking to me. I really want to be friends with them because they used to be awesome and we always hung out but now I've just been left in the dust. :'(. what do I do????

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Natasha is being a little b!tch, sorry but that's how I will put it, to be simple. The harsh truth about Middle School is that it changes people in many ways whether it be by ego, academics, or (mostly) friend groups (High School, not so much so don't worry there). I didn't have friends in Elementary and when I did they all moved. I maybe had one or two acquaintances to start with and, yes, they changed dramatically.
My best friend from Kindergarden completely changed, I wasn't close to her but still talked to her and as soon as we hit Middle School she went a whole other direction. She started stuffing her bra, telling lies, and making new friends that were mean to me. So I dropped her and she became "the school h0".
Please, save yourself the suffering and hurt and just make new friends. Don't stoop to her level by spreading gossip or talking bad about her- just forget about her and move on. If anything, pity her. She is slowing you down and you will not go anywhere by being her shadow- it'll make you look like a sad follower (and no one likes a follower). For the sake of your well-being, please heed my words.

Hope I helped, good luck.

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They aren't your friends :( They are mean to you, and you deserve better than that. If you really want to get back together with them, tell them. Talk to Abbey and Natasha, and tell them how you feel. Be careful who you spend time with in the future. Do you have any other good friends you can hang out with?

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Yah I do but none of them are as close as abbey and Natasha were. It's just not fair that i had to be the third wheel. It's always me. Always me who gets left behind. I have tried to talk to them about it but they deny everything. Ugh I hate middle school. Everything was perfect until then. I had the best friends and then poof! They all changed. Some of them stayed the same. But those friends aren't as good as abbey and Natasha were.
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All people will change; weather or not it is for the good or the worse. They aren't being nice at all. Hang out with other friends. Are you in 6th grade?
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Nope 7th
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Minji

Tell them about it. If they don't listen, make new friends you don't need them.

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Find better friends. Show them you don't need them anymore.

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Thats junior high for you. :) friends change, then they leave. Happens to almost everyone.

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That happened to me. D; My friend Lily and Octava.But Lily LITTLELY left me in the dust.It was a dry day.
I felt that way too.Leave them alone.Find new friends.Get a boyfriend.

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Hannah5500

that happened to me. some one i was friends with in sixth grade went with the popular girls in seventh grade. it made me sad and she never talks to me anymore. well its not your falt and she is missing out on an awesome friend so dont worry about it, it's her problem. now its a new year so find new friends that like you for you. dont let it get you down. show her what she is missing out on. But dont be mean to her because if you do be mean, you are just as bad as her. Be the bigger person and be nice. its okay it will all work out in the end. Good Luck :)

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I'm just glad that people I don't even know are being nice to me. It's not fair that friends thing other friends don't have feeling or something cuz that's basically what they are assuming. :(
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Hannah5500
i know how you feel. its happened to me, they dont care and ruin a year or longer friendship in 1 second.
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People change. Clearly Natasha is not as nice as she used to be. Start looking for new friends.

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Natasha is being a little b!tch, sorry but that's how I will put it, to be simple. The harsh truth about Middle School is that it changes people in many ways whether it be by ego, academics, or (mostly) friend groups (High School, not so much so don't worry there). I didn't have friends in Elementary and when I did they all moved. I maybe had one or two acquaintances to start with and, yes, they changed dramatically.
My best friend from Kindergarden completely changed, I wasn't close to her but still talked to her and as soon as we hit Middle School she went a whole other direction. She started stuffing her bra, telling lies, and making new friends that were mean to me. So I dropped her and she became "the school h0".
Please, save yourself the suffering and hurt and just make new friends. Don't stoop to her level by spreading gossip or talking bad about her- just forget about her and move on. If anything, pity her. She is slowing you down and you will not go anywhere by being her shadow- it'll make you look like a sad follower (and no one likes a follower). For the sake of your well-being, please heed my words.

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everyone changes at this point alot of friendships are tested this will happen again once you hit highshool. i don't talk to any one from elementary or junior high but i talk to everyone from highshool still. make some new friends just for the moment they won't stick around either. your at a delicate time in life!

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